I always thought of myself as a grower. Like I would never show off my cock if it wasn't at least semi hard. But ever since coming to this site I have been paying more attention to it in its various states and it seems to range from 4-6" soft. I am 7.5-8" long hard (depending on how excited I am). I put a measuring pic of my softy up in my gallery. http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showgallery.php/cat/500/ppuser/168234 It looks very small to me in that pic and I was surprised when it measured just shy of 6". I hear people around here talking as if that's a big soft size. So am I a grower or shower?