Am I a loser because I'm here on a Friday night?

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I rarely go out on Friday nights. Too tired and recovering from a soul-sucking work week. Fridays usually consist of some TV, a few beers, maybe a good book.

Saturdays are occasional nights out, but most of the time is spent at home watching movies and drinking more than a few beers.

Pretty much the same for me, but maybe less beer...and more martinis. :biggrin1:

I recently broke down and bought an MP3 player, which arrived today, so my plan for tonight is to get it set up. I wish it would charge faster...

I'm glad that arrived today instead of my other recent purchase: a microfiber mop. If that had arrived instead, I'd have to spend tonight mopping the floors.
 

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Friday and Saturday nights out are totally overrated. I've been a full time student and working more than full time for the better part of three years now. Friday night is homework, Saturday night is either going to a friends house and chilling or catching up on much needed sleep. Occasionally I'll get wild hair and go downtown to party but I usually opt to be the designated driver. I go for friends, not the hang over, they miss me.

Then again I have always been one to stay at home when given the choice, I like it at home. I made it very comfortable and never bored. I'll be on here all night as a way to take a break from this homework. :)
 

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What I usually do on the weekends generally depends on what time of year it is. When it's not the school year, I usually go out to the bars and do karaoke or something with friends. When it is during the school year, I usually just stay in and either relax, study or sleep. Tonight is a little different for me, though. It's during the school year, but I plan on going out anyway... and I got a new tattoo tonight!
 

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If it means I'm a loser for staying home, then yup. :) I prefer to think of myself as being able to pleasure myself whenever I feel like it later tonight... and that's not half bad... I can think of ways it could be better!!!

But in my reality for the time being, I'm finishing up boy scout derby cars with my boys, I just ducked into here to check mail and boards in between layers of paint. :)
 

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Are we even greater losers for reading it and wondering the same things?

Nah, Friday is overrated anyway. It's not a very gay night either. Tuesdays and Thursdays are the big gay nights out in New York among the more mature crowd.

But I don't live in the city. I live in a dull sleepy town full of breeders who wake-up at 4:30am to go to work in the city and don't get home until 8 or 9pm. By the time it's the weekend they don't have the energy to do anything. As singles can't afford to live here the only people you meet in the bars are retirees, a handful of local workers, and a great number of divorced people who got to keep their house here in the settlement. So either you get the same yocals or bitter divorcees who are too guilty to drink at home.

There are no gay clubs, bars, or anything for 50 miles so no, not much to do around here. Not even a movie theater.

Now if I had friends around here, a boyfriend or spouse, an income, and lived in a gay mecca which had loads of culture of all sorts, maybe I'd tell myself I'm not getting any younger and just go out and have some fun with no goal other than just getting out with a friend and doing something even if it's only dinner at a restaurant with ethnic food I've never tried and an indy movie I'd never think to see.

I love to go out and try different ethnic foods. I love to go out and dance to tribal house (you know that already). By the way, I'm not into drugs, either.:wink:

Jason, I'd gladly take you to the Eagle in NYC, or spend Friday/Saturday night at a Hungarian restaurant.:biggrin1:
 

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Then haul that cute furry ass of yours up here already! You know you've got an open invite.

I love to go out and try different ethnic foods. I love to go out and dance to tribal house (you know that already). By the way, I'm not into drugs, either.:wink:

Jason, I'd gladly take you to the Eagle in NYC, or spend Friday/Saturday night at a Hungarian restaurant.:biggrin1:
 

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sirloin steaks, baked potatoes, and a nice bottle of red wine.......bed by 10.....

2nd that very much. I now usually prefer staying home to clubbing because of all of clubbing's associated hassles: expensive drinks and food, music way too loud, expensive parking, poor service, cigarette smoke fumigating my nice clothes, etc.
 

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As my mom would say - "Get the hell out of the house!" "Go play outside!"


You gotta tell mom....Hey it's the 00's, you are living in the 80's, kids don't go out and play, they play video games inside.