HungThickProf
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I don't believe that you're an asshole because you're not ready to be a parent, obviously. When a child is involved, you're getting a set- not just her, but her child as well. And if that's not what you're looking for, then that's you. Personally, it's not a role I'm ready to play either, so I understand completely. However, I will say that it does sound a bit asshole-ish when you emphasize that you don't want to "raise" or "pay for" another man's child. That's just fucking ridiculous to me. IF something was to grow between you and his mother and you got to know the child, blood-related or not, it's about the quality of life for the child. Blood doesn't make a family, love does. So, it just sounds to me as if you're not quite ready yet. Maybe you will be in the future.