Am i becoming asexual?

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I went to the adult pictures section and looked at some pictures of naked ladies and instead of feeling sexual attraction, I just felt weird.
I felt like the human body just isn't attractive it's a weird looking thing.

I don't watch porn. I don't have sex. I really don't desire sex like I used to. I still want it, but not very much and kinda think it is a little gross.

Am I becoming asexual? Can your sexuality change like that?
 

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Why a thyroid test?
Not uncommon for Hypothyroidism to manifest into a reduced sexual drive. Before my wife was diagnosed with Hashimotos she lost her drive. Once on Synthroid it came back (in a big way). Same with low T (I had that). Regardless, don't try and categorize yourself. You are who you are.
 
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You have a severe untreated mental illness that you are clearly making worse through your activity on this website.

The mods really should ban you for your own mental well being. I'd honestly say at this point allowing you to continue posting here is enabling your self harm and perhaps encouraging others to mimic you.
 

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I would just tell the doctor that you've noticed a significant decrease in your sex drive and you'd like to run some blood tests. Without going through your medical history I wouldn't want to narrow it down to thyroid just yet.
 
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I went to the adult pictures section and looked at some pictures of naked ladies and instead of feeling sexual attraction, I just felt weird.
I felt like the human body just isn't attractive it's a weird looking thing.

I don't watch porn. I don't have sex. I really don't desire sex like I used to. I still want it, but not very much and kinda think it is a little gross.

Am I becoming asexual? Can your sexuality change like that?

Age.
 

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You have a severe untreated mental illness that you are clearly making worse through your activity on this website.

The mods really should ban you for your own mental well being. I'd honestly say at this point allowing you to continue posting here is enabling your self harm and perhaps encouraging others to mimic you.

What about my post suggested mental illness?
 

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I think you should ask a doctor to define your problem: is it asexuality or decreased sex drive" libido" ?
As the latter may result from many medical "hormonal, neurological, ..." problems as well as psychological disorders, which both can be treated
 
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Are you taking Finesteride? That is a drug prescribed to men for BPH and also for hair loss. Thing is, this drug will shrink your prostate and also takes away your sex drive as well as your ability to cum. Its fucked up for the dudes that take that crap. I took it for a while (early BPH) and got off that stuff when I noticed the issues with my 'boys'. All back to normal after stopping it. Just a thought... perhaps it may be some medication you are on?
 

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Are you taking Finesteride? That is a drug prescribed to men for BPH and also for hair loss. Thing is, this drug will shrink your prostate and also takes away your sex drive as well as your ability to cum. Its fucked up for the dudes that take that crap. I took it for a while (early BPH) and got off that stuff when I noticed the issues with my 'boys'. All back to normal after stopping it. Just a thought... perhaps it may be some medication you are on?
Doctor mentioned this to me once, and I feel it would not make sense... How did you 'boy' feel? LOL
 

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Being asexual does not mean you have no or even low sex drive. It also does not mean you find sex revolting. It absolutely does not mean you find human bodies unattractive.

Asexuality is a spectrum and uniformly I have found that asexual people are immensely relieved when they discover why they differ from others in how they experience attraction and sex.

You may be on the asexual spectrum, but the way you describe your feelings as if they’ve changed over time may instead be related to your mental state or, as others have suggested, hormone changes.

There is a lot of misunderstanding about what asexuality means as an orientation.
 

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I went to the adult pictures section and looked at some pictures of naked ladies and instead of feeling sexual attraction, I just felt weird.
I felt like the human body just isn't attractive it's a weird looking thing.

I don't watch porn. I don't have sex. I really don't desire sex like I used to. I still want it, but not very much and kinda think it is a little gross.

Am I becoming asexual? Can your sexuality change like that?

Did it change, or you've always felt this way?
 

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Doctor mentioned this to me once, and I feel it would not make sense... How did you 'boy' feel? LOL
It totally destroyed my sex drive. Also, it made the volume of my semen decrease over 50% and when I did cum, there was some pain associated with it. Total cluster fuck situation! A few months after I stopped taking it my stuff was back to normal.

Read about it and you will hear others describe more severe side effects. Other options are available so if you are in a BPH situation, ask your doc to consider another treatment (my advice).
 
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I am definitely more and more asexual or nonsexual as I age.

Used to take major risks to have sex. No more. It would have to drop in my lap.