Am i being narrow-minded about cuckolding?

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i cannot understand cuckolding or allowing other men to have sex with your girlfriend/wife BECAUSE they are bigger ... i think it is really just an inferiority complex. you mind-fuck yourself so much you believe you are somehow 'cheating' her of good sex because you aren't 'big enough'. i am 'small' technically due to my lack of girth but i would rather go and settle down with a woman who is very tight/inexperienced/virgin (so that my size is less of an issue) than allow other men to be intimate with someone i love. i know many get off from it but i simply don't see how i could enjoy seeing a woman that i LOVE being pleasured by someone else. it would hurt me to my very core.
 

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People enjoy what they enjoy. If it's not hurting any body and if all parties are into it, then let them. It's really not that big of a deal.
 

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I think it's a way for guys to cope with having a smaller member. It's like being obsessed with the Steelers even though you don't play football.
 

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From my point of view, the chance of meeting a man thicker and longer than me is so rare, I told her that such man would have my permission, and it will be her duty to service someone larger than me. I doubt I'll have to eat my words, but it made her smile.
 

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i cannot understand cuckolding or allowing other men to have sex with your girlfriend/wife BECAUSE they are bigger ... i think it is really just an inferiority complex. you mind-fuck yourself so much you believe you are somehow 'cheating' her of good sex because you aren't 'big enough'. i am 'small' technically due to my lack of girth but i would rather go and settle down with a woman who is very tight/inexperienced/virgin (so that my size is less of an issue) than allow other men to be intimate with someone i love. i know many get off from it but i simply don't see how i could enjoy seeing a woman that i LOVE being pleasured by someone else. it would hurt me to my very core.

For someone who doesn't like cuckolding, you sure love hearing people talk about how satisfying bigger dicks are.
 

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To the OP- if it doesn't excite you and it makes you uncomfortable thinking about it- then good for you bud you have a great committed marriage and you are obsessively in-love with the one you chose. You're connected and you're mentally committed.

To everyone else- this is not any kind of a slam or judgement to the rest of us. I'm trying to be supportive and reinforcing to him, so that he doesn't feel weird or odd.

All relationships are a two way street- both parties have rules and guidelines, and then have to allow their partner to feel supported within that trust, while expecting them to grow, and change, and likely not be able to live up to that golden standard and maybe stray or be unfaithful (in action or emotional betrayal.)

Some people can treat physical trysts as nothing more than 'adult play' that leads to orgasm- and it guess it's for each couple to get to the root of their relationship and trust to see what is a yes, no or maybe. Don't feel any shame about not making this part of your scene, buddy- it's what works for you and ultimately what brings you TOGETHER and not APART that is key.
 

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Patchos, why are you always so aggressive ? did you have to be so rude about the OP ? if you do nt like a thread just ignore it.
 

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Patchos, it was you who de railed the thread by attacking the OP, your contribution on this and so many other threads is just to make offensive comments, your comment did not add anything of any value
 

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I could understand cuckolding better if most of the guys who were into it were the one who wanted to fuck another mans gf/wife but most of the time they want someone else to fuck their gf/wife.
 

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i cannot understand cuckolding or allowing other men to have sex with your girlfriend/wife BECAUSE they are bigger ... i think it is really just an inferiority complex. you mind-fuck yourself so much you believe you are somehow 'cheating' her of good sex because you aren't 'big enough'. i am 'small' technically due to my lack of girth but i would rather go and settle down with a woman who is very tight/inexperienced/virgin (so that my size is less of an issue) than allow other men to be intimate with someone i love. i know many get off from it but i simply don't see how i could enjoy seeing a woman that i LOVE being pleasured by someone else. it would hurt me to my very core.

Two things that I hate: Cuckholding and cheating on one's spouse. People who think that dick size is a major factor in their relationships might also have dick heads.
 
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Two things that I hate: Cuckholding and cheating on one's spouse. People who think that dick size is a major factor in their relationships might also have dick heads.

I'm glad you made that into two separate items, because they are completely different .

Cucking is nothing more than a fetish the same as any other kink.
Not for everyone... The best thing is to know your partner and know your limits.

Cucking has many variations and generalizing about couples that do it is like call ALL fruit apples....

The OP has a right to express his opinion, and I respect that... I also understand that not everyone thinks alike....Thank God!

:smile:

FP

PS.. For me and my spouse... dick size is NOT a major factor in our relationship.. but it sure does feel good SOMETIMES during sex...
 
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i cannot understand cuckolding or allowing other men to have sex with your girlfriend/wife BECAUSE they are bigger ... i think it is really just an inferiority complex. you mind-fuck yourself so much you believe you are somehow 'cheating' her of good sex because you aren't 'big enough'. i am 'small' technically due to my lack of girth but i would rather go and settle down with a woman who is very tight/inexperienced/virgin (so that my size is less of an issue) than allow other men to be intimate with someone i love. i know many get off from it but i simply don't see how i could enjoy seeing a woman that i LOVE being pleasured by someone else. it would hurt me to my very core.

Ummmm. Well, inexperienced virgins have it bad. One, they are not in tune with the whole shabang. Now are you such an expert? How can you be, when sexual satisfaction for you and your partner will not be from just intercourse. She needs to be able to communicate, if she can. So if anything your telling us you feel better about having satisfied your sexuality over a virgin.

Most woman do not have such sexual experiences with large men. Those who have and found their sweet spot, will be more than grateful to have a average man who allows it from another man.

Sex with a secondary person is strictly physical. The feeling during sex is different. A lucky woman will have a man who is large enough to satisfy her while having intercourse and who she loves so deeply. No other man being larger will be any better, period. So there are very few lucky women out there, and deal with what they have. Just as men are with what they get at home. Like the connex between them is more important than the physicals. Some times the connex is so shared equally that having a partner is an extension to sharing the physicals only. But nothing is in the way of what they feel for each other.

I have such a relationship, as for my soul mate is able to see and be with who ever. As I cannot be there for her physically, yet nobody gets what she give me and what I give in return. We both cannot limit each other, only allow the best for each other, as our love is the best.
 
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