i cannot understand cuckolding or allowing other men to have sex with your girlfriend/wife BECAUSE they are bigger ... i think it is really just an inferiority complex. you mind-fuck yourself so much you believe you are somehow 'cheating' her of good sex because you aren't 'big enough'. i am 'small' technically due to my lack of girth but i would rather go and settle down with a woman who is very tight/inexperienced/virgin (so that my size is less of an issue) than allow other men to be intimate with someone i love. i know many get off from it but i simply don't see how i could enjoy seeing a woman that i LOVE being pleasured by someone else. it would hurt me to my very core.
Ummmm. Well, inexperienced virgins have it bad. One, they are not in tune with the whole shabang. Now are you such an expert? How can you be, when sexual satisfaction for you and your partner will not be from just intercourse. She needs to be able to communicate, if she can. So if anything your telling us you feel better about having satisfied your sexuality over a virgin.
Most woman do not have such sexual experiences with large men. Those who have and found their sweet spot, will be more than grateful to have a average man who allows it from another man.
Sex with a secondary person is strictly physical. The feeling during sex is different. A lucky woman will have a man who is large enough to satisfy her while having intercourse and who she loves so deeply. No other man being larger will be any better, period. So there are very few lucky women out there, and deal with what they have. Just as men are with what they get at home. Like the connex between them is more important than the physicals. Some times the connex is so shared equally that having a partner is an extension to sharing the physicals only. But nothing is in the way of what they feel for each other.
I have such a relationship, as for my soul mate is able to see and be with who ever. As I cannot be there for her physically, yet nobody gets what she give me and what I give in return. We both cannot limit each other, only allow the best for each other, as our love is the best.