So my gf and i have been dating over a year. she was a virgin, and i was her first kiss and all that, and it took over 4 months before she would even take her shirt off around me. Its her cousins 21st birthday next month and they're all going to play some game called Shooters for hooters, where they flash a random or the bartender, full out, no bra or anything, and get a free drink. I really really dont agree with this as weve been dating for over a year but when i expressed my discontent she told me im being a controlling asshole. I dont think i was too out of line but she really feels for some reason a random person shes never met before gets a free show when i put 4 months of effort just to get to that point. I don't know how i feel about someone i love so much showing her stuff off like that even if i know shes mine and would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship, but i agreed to it and lied, and now i dont really know how to deal with it. its just so odd that all of a sudden she wants to do this. it really bothers me but i dont want to be the "controlling asshole" stopping her from doing that, as it would just lead to more problems. what would you guys do in my situation because i am absolutely stumped thanks guys.