Well after my consideration last night, and a really good talk with my incredibly sexually active sister, she told me to really not worry. she was in a relationship for 4 years and even in the middle of it, when things were at its best, if she was out with the girls and it was just a dare thing as part of their game, she would do it. Its not like shes going to the bar for the sole purpose of flirting with guys, and showin the goods just to get free drinks and lead them on for her disposal. It's just an innocent, fun, night out on the town with the girls. Its pretty liberating when you finally get something pounded into your head like that.