Am I bi?

[adequate]

the OP of this thread mentioned something about not being attracted to a man's face.... even as a gay man, there have been instances where in the beginning i don't find a man attractive, but as i get to know them and their personality better i suddenly find them more attractive.... that could even go the other way.... lots of guys who i found attractive at face value suddenly became very ugly once i got to know them.... the best advice i can give is the same advice everyone else seems to be giving: experiment with what you're comfortable with and see how it pans out for you.... different people will show you different things, and only by trying them out or at least being open to suggestion can you figure out what you like and don't like.... it could be physical OR emotional.... just be sure to play safe and stay true to yourself....

You're spot on, Concupisys !

 

[pleasureboy]

Ya know there's no reason to classify yourself as one thing or another. OUr sexuality is genetically encoded. Even if it were a single gene (like with Mendelsohn's pea plants -- red and white flowers -- we learned about in high school biology) then only 25% of the population would be all the way straight and 25% would be all the gay with the other 50% falling somewhere in the middle. Chances are it's actually several genes working together so that sexuality is not black-white-grey, but rather an entire spectrum.

Most everybody is somewhere on the spectrum. OUr society tries to make us pick a side so to speak. Just be who you are, find someone who makes you happy, and fuck whomever you're attracted to and don't worry about what to call yourself!

 

[jonluke6ft2]

No label's please. We are all sexual beings. I don't believe anyone one is off limits. It is more about the soul of the person for me.

 

[buddy629]

Since you asked...

It may be best to not try to put a label on it. Do explore your sexuality, though. Find things that turn you on and don't be afraid to experiment.

As other members are saying, sexuality is not very easily categorized. I have found that (for me) it pays to follow any idea that turns me on. You never know where it will lead, and when it leads to something that gets you off... you win!

HB

I couldn't agree more. Be true to yourself. As long as it involves consenting adults, all is well.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

Hi I'm 6'5 tall, 7.5 long and 6.3 around, I'm not sure if am bi or not:I like girls, but I also get turned on by big dicks or hot bodies. On the other hand I don't get turned on just from looking at a guy's face and I really can't picture myself falling in love or having sex with another man. What does that make me?

Who cares? Just do what feels right to you and don't worry about what to call it. You're not writing a dictionary.

Now go out there and have fun.

 

[spengler]

In life it is hard to realize what we really want.
Once we realize it, accepting it is sometimes even harder.
Finally, if you accept it, obtaining it can be sometimes the hardest thing in the world.

So, if you can go through all this hard path and finally reach what you really want, you can say you are both lucky and strong willed.

In this case, understanding what you want should not be hard. (sucking a cock, for examle)
Accepting it can be easy too. (you want that and nothing else. no kissing, no male romance, just sucking)
Obtaining it, finally, can be a bit harder but maybe not! This board is full of nice people that is reading this thread with their cock in their hands and some of them would kindly accept to shove their penis in your mouth!

So, as long as your dreams are not impossible, i think you should fullfill them. Life is short and youth is even shorter. Enjoy your pulsions and don't ruin your ego with useless labels.