Am I Bi?

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I’m 32 and identify as gay… I’m happily married to a guy and we enjoy an ‘open’ marriage although we usually only play together.
Recently I’m beginning to think I might be bisexual; I’ve always appreciated a good looking woman but have never had sexual feelings… recently, whilst watching porn I’ve started thinking I could do that - I could do an MMF threesome …

Am I bi? Advice welcome …
 
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I’m 32 and identify as gay… I’m happily married to a guy and we enjoy an ‘open’ marriage although we usually only play together.
Recently I’m beginning to think I might be bisexual; I’ve always appreciated a good looking woman but have never had sexual feelings… recently, whilst watching porn I’ve started thinking I could do that - I could do an MMF threesome …

Am I bi? Advice welcome …

I think more ppl are bi than 100% gay or 100% straight. Try it out. See what happens.
 
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Think of gender preference as a spectrum. If you have to ask, you’re on the spectrum, but it might only be 1%. If you’re curious, find out. Life’s too short not to.
 

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I’m 32 and identify as gay… I’m happily married to a guy and we enjoy an ‘open’ marriage although we usually only play together.
Recently I’m beginning to think I might be bisexual; I’ve always appreciated a good looking woman but have never had sexual feelings… recently, whilst watching porn I’ve started thinking I could do that - I could do an MMF threesome …

Am I bi? Advice welcome …
I think you should explore, if anything just for the experience given your curiosity.

If everyone is happy and consenting, there is nothing wrong whatsoever.
 
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You're not alone. There are heaps of men out there who identify as 'gay' but are actually bisexual and are in the same situation as yourself. The big problem is the shaming from 'gold star' gay men and straight women when gay men come out as bi.

Also humans are sexually fluid, so your attractions and desires will change over your life.
 

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You're not alone. There are heaps of men out there who identify as 'gay' but are actually bisexual and are in the same situation as yourself. The big problem is the shaming from 'gold star' gay men and straight women when gay men come out as bi.

Also humans are sexually fluid, so your attractions and desires will change over your life.

Good post.

Im not a fan of sometimes you see bi men shamed on here by gay men or straight women either. This should be a forum where you feel safe to be supported by all.

I respect all bi men on here and their choices. I might not agree with some, but thats their choice.

I have no desire to have any romantic or personal relationships with men, but I do enjoy occasionally having sex with them. Big deal, lots of bi guys here have the same attitude, some dont, which is all good. As bi men we are unique, we enjoy the pleasures of both men and women.
 

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I’ve discussed it with him and he’s open to the idea of letting me ‘explore’ it further …

That may be easier said than done though, finding a genuine couple who are interested in letting me explore my feelings where the guy is bi so I can have fun with both - that doesn’t sound very common o_O
 
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I’ve discussed it with him and he’s open to the idea of letting me ‘explore’ it further …

That may be easier said than done though, finding a genuine couple who are interested in letting me explore my feelings where the guy is bi so I can have fun with both - that doesn’t sound very common o_O

I’d recommend seeing a sex worker for your first female experience, that’s what I did and made sure it was a bisexual woman and had a great time discussing everything about sex with eomen. Made me a lot more confident and comfortable.