Am I big enough for her?

[alwaysguessing]

LOL! I'm taking notes, nolbaby!

 

[ManlyBanisters]

anyway, you're big enough for her. and if you're not, then maybe she's just too fat. tell that fatty to lose some weight because even a 747 looks small when you fly it into the grand canyon.

But the internal dimensions of a vagina do not change as the woman who owns it gains and loses weight. So that's not going to be the case, is it

then sigh next time she orders anything other than a house salad when you go out to eat. sigh, make it obvious, then immediately change the subject to something about sports. talk about Rodman.

Passive-aggressive behaviour like that very often (most often, in my experience) has the opposite of the desired effect. If, instead of talking outright about what was bothering him/her, a friend or partner chose to sigh at me I'd do my damndest to continue pissing him/her off to the max until the childish fucker had no choice but to actually fucking discuss the issue.

 

[NightOwlGate]

I fucking love how this was placed in the "Show Off" section.

God, I love you guys xD <3

 

[Cumshoter]

I fucking love how this was placed in the "Show Off" section.

God, I love you guys xD <3

Man post gallery pics with your cock, who gives a damn about your face.

 

[deleted157868]

ok everybody else seems to want to be an asshole. I guess I'm in a better mood than everybody else tonight. I'll answer with something which might actually help a bit.
Birth control can throw a woman's sex drive into a tail spin (pun intended). I didn't know anything about this until I read an article a couple years ago in Playboy (sorry, don't remember which issue) about women and why they are attracted to a certain type of man. The main piece of info I got from the article was that, while on birth control, a woman will be attracted to a different type of man than she normally is during the rest of her life. The article was too deep for me to try to quote it or get medical with any of this, but I'm sure it is googleable. Birth control flips women's hormones around and actually changed their preference in mates for the time that they are on it. I had a girl fall totally in love with me and get engaged to me while on birth control, and then as soon as she stopped taking it, we couldn't stand each other. I truly believe that the birth control had something to do with it.
It might not be valid at all, but its worth looking in to. And if nothing else, at least I said something more than "your penis isn't a woman's issue" and told you to F-OFF.
(This wasn't a sph question whatsoever. It was an honest question about a concern which has crossed most of our minds at one time or another- the concern that our partner is losing interest in us sexually, which could lead to them losing interest in us completely) I don't know why everybody jumped on this guy for asking the question he did.
Big... bunch of... meanies...

Can anyone verify this?

 

[B_dark1_4me]

Birth control is bad for sex drive- messes up the hormones.
You have been in this relationship for a while, so the intensity and excitement have lost their edge.
Time to communicate - ask questions and if there is anything you could do to help.

 

[AlteredEgo]

2nd this. your mirror will make u feel a little more confident if you get in better shape (this only makes a difference to the superficial, though). however, when you exercise, your body releases endorphins which do things like a) heal injuries b)soothe pain c)give you energy or to sum it up- endorphins make you feel good. plus, if you are working out for 2 hours, you aren't sitting around thinking about whatever it is that has you depressed in the first place! even if its only for 2 hours, its better to be depressed for 22 hours a day than 24 right?

its not a certain answer. shit look at the milli vanilli guy. he was fuckin SHREDDED and GORGEOUS and he still killed himself due to an unbeatable depression. Dennis Rodman is in fantastic physical shape and he is the most depressed guy I've ever met. Nice guy though, just fyi.

anyway, you're big enough for her. and if you're not, then maybe she's just too fat. tell that fatty to lose some weight because even a 747 looks small when you fly it into the grand canyon. then sigh next time she orders anything other than a house salad when you go out to eat. sigh, make it obvious, then immediately change the subject to something about sports. talk about Rodman.

I hope your lover isn't like me. I fight passive aggression with active aggression. Your plan sounds lke a great way to find your clothes shredded, and your dog given away. Let's not even mention what I would find it necessary to do to your car. This is the worst advice I've ever seen

 

[alwaysguessing]

I figured he was just kidding about the fattie stuff.

 

[139189]

You know, some women don't have orgasms from penetration. So why are you complaining so much?

 

[alwaysguessing]

Some people don't even have feet, and you still say "ow" when you stub your toe.