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I remember when I use to sneak and watch queer as folk. I’ve seen every episode. Sneaking and looking at gp when I was at mom job smh. Never acting on just realizing at a early age seeing m/m sex acts and seeing a naked male photo got me as hard as seeing a naked. Ive always fucked women never been with a male. Now being adult in my 30s watching decades of gp, I want to indulge m/m sex. When I watch gp I have raging hard-one. My question is, am I destined to be gay or bi because I developed an attraction to men. I have a type that I like and everything. Did I do this to myself? or was I someway attracted all this time and just realized it now that I’m older.
 

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You are not gay and never will turn gay.

You are a shade of bisexual, you have always been a shade of bisexual.

You can't turn bi from looking at gay porn, you are bi and thus you enjoy gay porn.

If it was that simple then gay conversion therapy would work and be as simple as watching straight porn all day long.

Will you prefer to be with men than women? That's something you will have to find out.

For me, having sex with women did very little for me. I could do it but I didn't enjoy it. Whereas gay sex was like my brain was exploding with fireworks and I just felt so right doing it.

The first few times after you cum, you can freak out a bit because of your hetero social conditioning. But after a while you come to realize it's the way nature intended.
 

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I remember when I use to sneak and watch queer as folk. I’ve seen every episode. Sneaking and looking at gp when I was at mom job smh. Never acting on just realizing at a early age seeing m/m sex acts and seeing a naked male photo got me as hard as seeing a naked. Ive always fucked women never been with a male. Now being adult in my 30s watching decades of gp, I want to indulge m/m sex. When I watch gp I have raging hard-one. My question is, am I destined to be gay or bi because I developed an attraction to men. I have a type that I like and everything. Did I do this to myself? or was I someway attracted all this time and just realized it now that I’m older.

I’ll give you the short answer: your last sentence was absolutely right. You were attracted to men all this time and just realized it now that you’re older.

You sound like you’re nervous about it, and I don’t blame you! But I agree with Brodie888 because I felt the same way. The anticipation can be nerve-wracking, but the only way you’ll know what you like is if you try it out. I used to sleep with girls, but in retrospect, I didn’t know was missing! Once I did start sleeping with guys, I never went back.

I’m not saying my experience will be the same as yours, but I do encourage you to try things out. Based on your description, it sounds like you’ll really enjoy it, at least once those initial butterflies go away….
 

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I remember when I use to sneak and watch queer as folk. I’ve seen every episode. Sneaking and looking at gp when I was at mom job smh. Never acting on just realizing at a early age seeing m/m sex acts and seeing a naked male photo got me as hard as seeing a naked. Ive always fucked women never been with a male. Now being adult in my 30s watching decades of gp, I want to indulge m/m sex. When I watch gp I have raging hard-one. My question is, am I destined to be gay or bi because I developed an attraction to men. I have a type that I like and everything. Did I do this to myself? or was I someway attracted all this time and just realized it now that I’m older.

Just out of curiosity, What is your type?
 

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Another thing is reading on is kinda scaring me. I’ve been on for years a lot of DL guys have been experimenting and having a sti/std scares. And me having a gf and wanting to experiment is not helping. Idk what to do I know bb is risky but I’ve been reading that I shouldn’t do oral with a condom like damn.
 
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... but I’ve been reading that I shouldn’t do oral with a condom like damn.

Why not? There's no harm in using barriers for oral sex.

The only thing I might say about it is that using barriers can give one the impression that one is protected from all varieties of STIs while using them, and that isn't exactly true, especially with respect to pathogens that spread just from skin-to-skin contact (e.g. crabs, warts, herpes) without need of fluids like semen or blood.
 

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Another thing is reading on is kinda scaring me. I’ve been on for years a lot of DL guys have been experimenting and having a sti/std scares. And me having a gf and wanting to experiment is not helping. Idk what to do I know bb is risky but I’ve been reading that I shouldn’t do oral with a condom like damn.

You can't have your cake and eat it. Whether it's fucking guys or fucking other women, in both instances you aren't being fair to your girlfriend if she actually means anything to you. Both circumstances risks her health and you are burning her biological baby clock keeping her around.

You should either end things or see if she wants an open relationship (which is uncommon for women to want).

Being outside of a relationship you are then free to figure out who you are without harming anyone else.