am i gay, bi strait?

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  1. ryanbat69

    ryanbat69 New Member

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    I am a bit confused on if I am gay, strait or bi. I need some help! I have a great girlfriend and she does turn me on, I love her tits and pussy but at the same time I like to come on here and look at everyones pics, I never have had the thought of doing anything sexual with a guy but I can tell if a guy is attractive or not. sometimes when i masterbate I think of pictures i have seen on here that i think i wish i kinda looked like. an Example would be better looking stomach , chest,, or a trail of hair up my stomach. I imagin what I would look like with these features. If that makes any sence at all. I am 18 so mabey time will tell. did any of you strait guys have a bit of a turn on to guys when you were in your teens? is it normal, AM I GAY?

    Ryan
     
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    Ryan search this site. Many, many responses regarding your question.

    Some time back I originated a thread on Young Male Sexual Encounters. Here is the link here on LPSG. I hope this helps.

    http://www.lpsg.org/young-and-hung/28232-young-male-sexual-experiences.html

    As you can tell there were many responses to this topic and some of them may assist you with your questions.
     
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    You sound like most 18yo guys - and that's no bad thing - because this is the time you should be out there experiencing every situation that comes your way. An 18yo stiff prick has no conscience, so use it to your advantage and fuck anyone with a pulse (safely of course, and in another state for your reputation's sake)! A steady girlfriend at this time of your life is a liability, not an asset. Why buy one book when you can join a multi-preference library?

    I predict you will know what your preferences are by the time you turn 21, and all with very little harm done. If you have been reasonably discreet, all options are still open. You may be 100% straight; or one of millions of 'straight' guys who like an occasional head job from a guy; you might be a real 50/50 bi-guy; or you may be 100% gay - don't 'over analyse' it; just let it happen; you will know
     
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    Too soon to tell from where I stand.

    I think it's key that you said you fantasized that you wanted to look like some of the men on this site while j/o. You didn't say that you wanted to suck them off, or wonder how their big throbbing cocks would feel fucking your throat or butt.:05: Okay, I do this often but I'm a girl so that's irrelevant.

    I would kill to have tits like cuvaceous and classy or tittenDD. I am more of a small Bboob. But I don't worry about being lesbian or bi-sexual.

    Why are you afraid of being Gay? Societal stigma and prejudice? Fuck Em! Some of the nicest people I know and my best friends on the planet are Gay men. If you want to experiment with boys do so without guilt. You have my blessing, as if that matters.

    There are some really nice married men on this site who sometimes enjoy sucking cock, or being sucked by men, or having anal sex with other men. Both giving and receiving. I guess if you need to apply a label that qualifies as bi-sexual. This is not weird or even a fetish. It hasn't ruined their lives, if anything it has enhanced their life experience.

    My only warning/advice is to
    ALWAYS practice safe sex; with girls and guys!

    njqt466




     
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    Hi Ryan

    Its all very confusing as a teen and for some people it stays confusing for much longer..

    I'd say im Gay to most people but i do like kissing women... I've not had sex with many women as i dont get turned on by the idea but i do like watching hetrosexual porn when a man and a women have sex..

    My advise is this...
    While you have a girlfriend just enjoy being with her and looking about for hot porn on the net wether its man and men or men and women or women and women or any combination of the above.. enjoy it too.. and dont feel guilty about it.. if you want to talk to her about it make sure you handle it carefully as she might find it difficult to undestand..

    if you become single then you can expolore your sexuality a little more... but for now enjoy having great sex with your girlfriend..

    :)
     
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    Your sexual...period. Your fine first of all. It sounds like you long for the bonding with guys more than anything else. Fantasy is just that...don't worry about that...enjoy it. Peace to your troubled mind my friend
     
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    Yes, LPSG is making you gay.
     
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    Sexuality is not easily defined for some people. Just go with the flow and do what makes you feel good. If your interested in exploring your sexuality with other men, go for it....that goes for women too.

    At this point, try not to be so quick to define yourself. Just follow where your dick points you, stay safe, and have fun.
     
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    Me, too.
    As my deeam, I like to watch the pictures.
     
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    You're normal,don't listen to the others.
     
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    Ryan,

    One Swallow does not a summer make. It's perfectly normal for otherwise straight young people to have feelings sometimes about other members of their own sex and the anatomy that goes with it. However it doesn't necessarily mean thatr you're gay or bi. However, even if you are, it's perfectly okay nowadays at least so far as the law's concerned, even if attitudes are still a bit mixed. I think it's important to remember that at 18 you're still young and you've a lot t6o experience. I certainly wouldn't worry too much about trying to define your sexuality yet. For the present I'd concentrate on enjoying life and having as a wide a circle of friends - of both sexes - as possible. I hope that helps.
     
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    YOU define what YOU are.
     
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    In terms of a loving, emotional relationship I'm 100% straight. I have ZERO desire to share that kind of intimacy with another guy.

    Sexually, I'm a little more broad-minded now. I've been in situations where there was another guy (or two) present and had some mind-blowing sex. But I still prefer women hands down. For one thing, I don't like the way guys smell. Women smell sweet and sexy to me, and they taste SO GOOD! But I enjoy feeling my wife's pussy stretch around my cock and another. Or watch her suck one of us while she's getting plowed deep from behind. Several years ago she told me that it would really turn her on to see me suck a guys dick. After some coaxing I tried it and was surprised how much fun it was to lick her juices off a hard cock (especially as she sucked me off or fucked me at the same time). So we sometimes include that in our play, but not always, and I seldom seek it out. To me, it's no different than if we included a vibrator or dildo. Just more fun parts to play with. But I have no desire to do anything with a guy one-on-one.

    So I guess I'm bi. Whatever. I just like great sex with my wife in all of its many forms.

    Addendum:
    We always get a laugh from the guys we meet through online services like adultfriendfinder. If we put "bi" or "bi-curious" in our profiles we inevitably end up hearing from guys that are mostly interested in getting in my ass (ain't EVER going to happen!). So we always say we're "straight", although I prefer heteroflexible. And when my wife asks any of the "straight" respondents if they would suck my dick for her, about 75% say no problem!
     
  14. Vestigial

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    I mentioned trying to support social deviancy as best I could.
    Friend said I that social deviancy doesn't get you too many friends.
    I mentioned it getting you better friends.

    Quality over quantity. Entire societies have been destroyed in the past, their word is not final.
     
  15. Vestigial

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    An interesting take from the Vampire & Energy Work Research Survey... (take it or leave it)

    006. Primary Sexual Orientation:


    Heterosexual

    Homosexual

    Bisexual

    Pansexual


    Sure, it doesn't list asexuality or other 'others', but the interesting part is the question itself.

    What is your Primary Sexual Orientation?
     
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    this site definately tilts twards homo-sexual... because were speaking about our organ..
     
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    Trust your cock.
     
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    It makes a good bit of sense to me ryan. I have always been a guy determined to have a good muscular body and proud to see that my cock and physicality measure up.... so, I have always appraised myself by comparing my appearance and assets with other guys. I mean, we can't compare ourselves with women, now can we?:rolleyes: Some women I have known have said that I am always preening and posturing to be masculine.:wink: Perhaps they are right, but that alone does not make either one of us gay! When you reach the point when you think sex with guys might be better than sex with girls... then perhaps you are at a turning point.:tongue: Meanwhile, what you are experiencing is terribly normal and very typical in the context of a young man's developing mind and sexuality!:smile:
     
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    You ask am I gay? I say probably not YET!
     
  20. D_Coyne Toss

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    You are fully straight. Otherwise, would all the women who look feminine magazines, full of models (no sex related, ok) be lesbians?
     
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