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im in mid 20s
i like girls
but i been watching porn since late teens

now i dont like gay porn and i never thought about kissin a guy

but when i watch porn i dont wish i was the guy pumping the girl i wish i was the the one getting drilled or sucking the cock etc
ive seen guys jerk of on web cam and liked it

i think more about having sex with men then women

so whats going on? sounds like im gay but then i dont like gay porn
 

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You are just human. Human beings like sex - doing it, watching it, talking about it, imagining it. Whether your interests make you straight, gay, bi I'm not sure - more like just a horny male. Think of yourself as whatever you feel comfortable with.
 

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Take life easy and never say never. It appears that you are open to more than you admit to yourself. The first person I bonded with as more than a friend was aged 15 like myself. We thought of ourselves as regular guys but, thanks to a zone of privacy we had at his house, we felt free to express ourselves physically. And, yes, IT happened and it seemed so natural and right and we continued for two years to learn by doing. Eventually, we both ended up as happily married men who have had the advantage of having discovered that other side of our sexuality at an early age.

What two persons do sexually together is not something that can be predicted. For that I am thankful. My first heterosexual bonding was quite as thrilling. My partners were persons I had come to love before we ever had sex; I loved them then and I love them still.
 

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Seem pretty normal. Maybe some slight (and I mean SLIGHT) gender identity issues but nothing I would call too far from normal.
 

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denial is a very powerful thing.

i am an old-time member of lpsg with now a new name. But i met a guy through here who was 100% straight, 0% gay..and then it almost switched to the other side lol

We talked for over a year on msn and stuff..really really great guy..but he was so deep in denial. Now he has a bf and is very happy.
 

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i like guys WAY more than girls and even i have a dislike for alot of gay porn! you're just young and having thoughts is all. maybe your a tad bit bi-curious and open to explore with another guy later on. best thing to say is if it feels good go with it. if you want to experiment with another guy it's perfectly ok. if you just want to go on having fantasies well that's ok too. nobody can say what you want to do or what you are but you.
 

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Dude,

I haven't had sex with a chick since I was 17. It's not that I didn't enjoy, I just knew I desired men more and there was no point in lying.

I love looking at cock, I love funky man crotch stink, I love tasting assholes and I love getting my ass pounded. So I guess I'm pretty damn gay. Having said that I'm not all that crazy about kissing a dude ( unless one or both of us has just been licking ass) and I too got tired of commercial porn in my early 20's.

Take the plunge. If you dont like it it's not like you're stamped with a big GAY stamp on your forehead for the rest of your life. If you do take it up the ass, please use protection no matter what the other guy says. And try to do it with someone considerate. The first couple of times I took it up the ass it hurt like hell. Then I found a man willing to spend the time to loosen me up and focus on my pleasure. And I came without touching myself. Plus learned what a great sex organ your ass can be in the right hands (or stuffed with the right cock).
 
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You sound like you are bisexual or gay. I am straight and I've never watched gay porn. I've never fantasized about being the woman getting fucked by the guy in straight porn, and I've never had sex or been attracted to men at all. It could just be that you don't like porn at all or gay porn?
 

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im in mid 20s
i like girls
but i been watching porn since late teens

now i dont like gay porn and i never thought about kissin a guy

but when i watch porn i dont wish i was the guy pumping the girl i wish i was the the one getting drilled or sucking the cock etc
ive seen guys jerk of on web cam and liked it

i think more about having sex with men then women

so whats going on? sounds like im gay but then i dont like gay porn

I am 100% gay and I don't like gay porn....i simply put do not like the image of guys having sex the way porn does it, its very bestial and unerotic to watch for me. I do however get turned on incredibly by solo porn which i regard as totally softcore and very homoerotic. Even basic male nudity does more for me than gay porn. I would say you must be bisexual at least if you are turned on by gay acts.
 

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I have sex with men and I don't like most gay porn. I'm not that keen on straight porn either, (mainly because of the make-up, the hairstyles, the high heels worn in bed, but most of all the long painted fingernails!).

What will eventually determine your sexuality is what you do with other people, not what porn you watch.