am i gay?

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  1. D_gu67y

    D_gu67y New Member

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    i dont get turned on by the thought of being with a man, but when im horning the thought of sucking a big cock really turns me on, as soon as ive ejaculated i dont really like the thought anymore?
     
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    bi-curious maybe? personally, i say explore whatever interests you and love everyone :smile:
     
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    I agree with all of that. Welcome to the forum; PM me for my Paypal account and I'll tell you how much.
     
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    I would say bi. If you were 100% str8, I don't think you would be thinking or intersted in sucking on a big juicy cock.

    You may want to explore it, but do it at your pace....
     
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    I am gay but love the thought of eating pussy ... (I did that in my younger days and loved it) When reality comes crashing in - after the cum ... hmm, I still love the thought of it! I know I am gay (ask my male partner of 32 years) but I still love the fantasy. Don't freak out about it. Use it for getting off. Nothing wrong with fantasies, buddy! (just don't tell my partner LOL<)
     
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    Just go with it.
     
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    Enjoy it.
     
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    A lot of men get this feeling. I personally use to often jerk off thinking about gay sex, then once I came felt bad about it and disliked the thoughts after. But I started jerking off to gay porn and quickly turned it off once I had unloaded, until one day I just let it run. I soon found that the guilty feelings faded away and I was really enjoying watching two men make love. The fact that I didn't need to jerk off, having already done so, gave me a new way of looking at the gay sex that was on my TV screen. It was in fact quite beautiful and very natural and I really did enjoy watching it. I had never just sat and watched porn before without jerking off but I watched the whole DVD this time and loved every minute of it. From then on I continued to watch gay porn after I came until it became a normal, natural thing. All feelings of guilt stopped, I knew I enjoyed it and could admit it to my self, if not straight away to others.
    I'm bisexual now and have enjoyed a healthy sex life with both men and women, if I'm honest I like sex with men more than with women, but that's just me.
    Try making your self watch gay porn after you cum or carry on fantasising homosexual thoughts and you will soon find out if you have strong gay tendencies. And if you do just accept them, they are perfectly natural and healthy. You will be happier just enjoying them and letting them be a part of you.
     
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    Gay and straight are such bullshit terms. It's a spectrum, not black and white. Some things will turn you on, and some won't. Have fun, experiment, and be safe.
     
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    I'm kind of that way. I love sex with females and only feel romantic with girls. I do however, enjoy doing some naughty things with hot guys. Just go with it and don't question it. ha!
     
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    haha I know str8 guys who get that way after doin a chick lol
     
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    Quoted for truth! Also, anyone who likes fighting games is automatically cooler than average. :) Thumbs up.
     
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    I totally agree
     
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    Man, thanks to webchats and sites like LPSG.org I have come to the conclusion that all of us males feel turned-on in some degree to manhood. One could imagine a scale going from 2 males beeing complementary in sex, to others where the turn-on is for admiration and identification, to some others where is the worship of a thing lacked in himself.

    For myself, I'm very turned on by the sight of a big nice cock, its spurts of cum, and the overall apearance of the male body it is attached, none detail in special in that body. Could look at a pic of a nice package without its body and j/o to it for hours. Nowadays I consider frotting a hot thing to think of, but never realy had the chance to experiment it a lot. BUT any thought of penetrative sex w/ men is a big TURN OFF for me.

    With women on the other hand, most of my thoughts are about shoving my dick inside a pussy, an ass or a mouth, I NEED TO BE INSIDE OF THEM, as if my cock were craving for a hot, moist tight place to hide. This craving for beeing inside a girl is directly proportional to the shape of her body (her ass specially), how much breast her clothes show, her wal, her smile. BUT I don't get any significant excitement from a pic of a pretty cunt without some of the girls body and preferably her face (at LEAST a pussy pic showing her breasts also).

    Maybe we'll never find out if we are str8 or gay because we can't find where in this scale we fit (I filleed the form 50% str8 / 50% gay here and I'm a 28y/o adult, so...), maybe we are equaly as excited by femaleness and maleness. Maybe labels are just dull.
     
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    Its the taboo that turns me on. Maybe its the same for you.
     
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    It's okay to try something new even if after the fact you decide it's not for you. One experience is not going to make or not make you gay. Relax, and enjoy whatever comes your way. Safely of course.
     
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    Hey man if you are fantasizing about sucking a dick you are not 100% str8. Honestly the thought of sucking does not turn me on at all. When I get horny I fantasize about takign a big dick up my ass. After I get off I usually think to myself "I am one sick bastard"
     
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    No, you're not gay :tongue: If you want to, or even fantasize about having oral with a woman, you can't be gay :biggrin1:

    Isn't that what most people tell Straight guys who have same sex thoughts?? :cool:
     
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    Silly Wabbit. Twicks awe for kids.
     
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    The only way you really will know is to explore your feelings by having a gay experience. To some people the thought is erotic, but the act when they actually try and do it is not. I hate labels, but right now there is no label at all because there is no experience. Personally I identify as gay, but I do not like sucking a cock at all. I do not really like the taste of semen at all and if you knew what my likes were, in many resepects I could also be viewed in a similar light. None of us really is 100% anything. Personally, I am what is considered a "top" and I am not able to function in any other role. I have tried over the years and it simply does not work for me. Try some oral and try some frottage and see how you feel after you've tried it. If you like the sensations and are able to 100% get off by doing this then you need to very carefully take the next steps to confirm those aspects of gay sex as well.

    I know a couple of men who are happiest when they are sucking away. They are hard as rocks when they are sucking because it is erotic for them. A few can suck and just a few minor rubs has them shooting like geysers.

    Sexuality and it's exploration is different for every individual. Take it slow and open the door to discovery about your self. Also remember that orientation in a situation like this is a progressive process of discovery. As you try various acts you will discover where you are at and what you enjoy.

    Good Luck
     
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