Ok so I’ve been having this problem for a while and I don’t know how to really explain it but here it goes. I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year now and we met because my other friend invited him over to the lake last year with us. My friend which is a girl, and this guy have known eachother for about two years at the time and are really close and are each others Bestfriend. The three of us sort of bonded and been a trio since then. Although it wasn’t really until this summer that things started to kinda change. Every time we hung out it was always the three of us together or me with my girl friend or my girl friend with him. But never me and him alone. I couldn’t help but notice this and wanted to change that so I would try to set up plans for us to hangout but it would never happen because something would always come up with him and he would cancel. I didn’t think much of it at first but after 3 times of plans being canceled I started to feel some type of way. All the while I would also notice the difference in the way he would be excited and happy to see and hangout with my girl friend when the 3 of us we’re together but I would just get a “Hey” and a handshake. This went on for awhile and now it’s at the point where I can’t help but get a little angry whenever he sees her and gets excited and doesn’t show that same excitement towards me. I’ve tried a couple more times to hangout with him one on one and he would still turn me down it’s only happened once because I showed up without saying anything. I just really want to get closer to the guy and have a guy friend because I’ve never really had one. I’m gay and all my friends have been girls up until this point guys were nothing more than acquaintances. I feel like there’s other details I should include but the post is already long enough but I can answer any questions. Am I jealous? Am I developing feelings for him? I can’t imagine being in a romantic relationship with him so I don’t think so but maybe that doesn’t matter. Or is he just being a messed up friend...