Am I shallow?

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I once broke up with a girl because she asked me if Transylvania was near Pennsylvania. Something about it just annoyed the shit out if me.
I don't expect a woman to be a jeopardy champion but is it shallow to let an otherwise good relationship end over something so trivial?

Ever been getting along great with someone and then they did something completely innocent and you just fell out of 'like' with them?
 
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This is not shallow at all. I mean, if it was something like "Is Connecticut near Pennsylvania?" at least she would be in the right ball park. I don't need to date an Einstein either, but I need to have someone with some sense.
 

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Not shallow. Shallow is kind of a stupid term, anyway. You're either attracted or you're not. We all like what we like. If something turns you off that much... It's not a trivial thing.
 

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Ever been getting along great with someone and then they did something completely innocent and you just fell out of 'like' with them?

Yes, I have..but the thing is I was already bother by something more "serious"..the small things was just the last drop in the bucket to let him go for good.
 

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I once broke up with a girl because she asked me if Transylvania was near Pennsylvania. Something about it just annoyed the shit out if me.
I don't expect a woman to be a jeopardy champion but is it shallow to let an otherwise good relationship end over something so trivial?

Ever been getting along great with someone and then they did something completely innocent and you just fell out of 'like' with them?

Although it's not right up next to Pa....Transylvania isn't really all that far from it.:tongue:
 

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It doesn't make you shallow at all. That's the whole reason for dating, to determine what you like or dislike and try and figure out how to deal with relationships that are different, isn't it? It's better than already knowing you don't like something and staying with them until they are just always annoying to be around.
 

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I could never build a relationship with an unintelligent or uninformed person. That's not shallow at all. Now, I would call you shallow if you stayed with her because she's a D cup.