Hi, I just started going out with a great guy, but when I felt him through his clothes...well, there wasn't much there. I only felt a small lump. I haven't seen him naked yet, so I don't know for sure, but it kind of put a damper on it for me. For awhile, I was dating a guy who was pretty big, 8-9 inches and very thick, so I'm afraid it will be a let down. Is this a normal way to feel? Am I being too shallow? Is it possible that there's more "hiding" in his pants somewhere? lol I really like this guy otherwise, but I'm afraid it will make a difference to me.