I think you know what you like. You belong to this boards, so size is a big factor obviously. Let's just say, what if you guys get along great. Do you think you can carry on a happy relationship with not meeting your needs in the meat department? Only you really know that answer. Call it shallow or whatever, but the bottom line should be - you know what you want - I say don't waste his time if you know you'll just end up wanting more. You have to think about more than yourself. So, it's great that you acknowldge this and are discussing it. Either way, good luck! XO