Am I Too Small And Why?

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I have a 7 and 7/8 penis that gets rock hard. I have no problem making my woman orgasm many times. I have a pretty average penis why when I look at it it feels small to me. Also the only way I can get off really is thinking about my woman get bigger or thinking that I am too small for her. Thoughts on this please. Is something wrong
 

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it's all in your head, you're packing a nice package... i would re-evaluate yourself and see where all this lack of self-love is coming from and sort it out asap.

as for you fetish of being small, well, that's just a fetish and only exist in fantasy land.
 
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I have a 7 and 7/8 penis that gets rock hard. I have no problem making my woman orgasm many times. I have a pretty average penis why when I look at it it feels small to me. Also the only way I can get off really is thinking about my woman get bigger or thinking that I am too small for her. Thoughts on this please. Is something wrong

Yeah, something is wrong! Have you been without internet for the last let's say 20 years or so? Please educate yourself about some penis size basics, thanks
 
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Sounds like you're possibly into SPH (small penis humiliation). It's a relatively common fetish.
 
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Yes you are truly tiny.
The ave penis is 11 inches {nevermind that so far 295 pages and a reward of 10000 USD lays unclaimed to find a 10 inch cock is unsuccessfull}.
You should be ashamed of yourself for having a mere 7incher.
Of course your photos will prove your claim.
Hide in a corner and never speak of this sgain.
 

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Is it? Not to me. Not my bag at all but it just seems like a harmless sexual foible, like any other. Why do you call it putrid?

I’m gonna guess it’s because of the baiting nature of so many who enjoy the fetish. Like many kinks, the more real they feel, the better, so often sph guys show up trying to bait (mostly woman) into saying they are small. Like, really often, from my understanding

Beyond that, you are correct, it’s a harmless fetish
 

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Yes you are truly tiny.
The ave penis is 11 inches {nevermind that so far 295 pages and a reward of 10000 USD lays unclaimed to find a 10 inch cock is unsuccessfull}.
You should be ashamed of yourself for having a mere 7incher.
Of course your photos will prove your claim.
Hide in a corner and never speak of this sgain.
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I’m gonna guess it’s because of the baiting nature of so many who enjoy the fetish. Like many kinks, the more real they feel, the better, so often sph guys show up trying to bait (mostly woman) into saying they are small. Like, really often, from my understanding

Beyond that, you are correct, it’s a harmless fetish
But is that unique to sph? We're all trying to get our wicked way somehow or other. Exhibitionists 'bait' to get a response, trying to get people to say they’re big. BDSM, while being all about 'consent', is also about pushing partners' boundaries psychologically, exploring their limits, to get them to agree to do or bear things that they wouldn’t normally. Really any kind of kink has that element, we're all trying to get others to share our sexual interests. I don’t see sph as really any different.

If it's not your bag, surely you just ignore it and move on. It worries me when people express visceral 'disgust' or distaste for a sexual interest they don’t share. And very often it feels like a rationalisation or moralisation gets tacked on to justify that disgust, usually 'consent' or just 'respecting boundaries'. The next step is trying to get it banned and vague threats of violence.
 
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Is it? Not to me. Not my bag at all but it just seems like a harmless sexual foible, like any other. Why do you call it putrid?

Yes. Even if sph is a mental illness (fetish is more like it), do we now call the mentally ill "putrid?"
 
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Yes you are truly tiny.
The ave penis is 11 inches {nevermind that so far 295 pages and a reward of 10000 USD lays unclaimed to find a 10 inch cock is unsuccessfull}.
You should be ashamed of yourself for having a mere 7incher.
Of course your photos will prove your claim.
Hide in a corner and never speak of this sgain.
Hurray! At last someone who understand irony. I've noted that many, many guys here don't get it.
 

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But is that unique to sph? We're all trying to get our wicked way somehow or other. Exhibitionists 'bait' to get a response, trying to get people to say they’re big. BDSM, while being all about 'consent', is also about pushing partners' boundaries psychologically, exploring their limits, to get them to agree to do or bear things that they wouldn’t normally. Really any kind of kink has that element, we're all trying to get others to share our sexual interests. I don’t see sph as really any different.

If it's not your bag, surely you just ignore it and move on. It worries me when people express visceral 'disgust' or distaste for a sexual interest they don’t share. And very often it feels like a rationalisation or moralisation gets tacked on to justify that disgust, usually 'consent' or just 'respecting boundaries'. The next step is trying to get it banned and vague threats of violence.

No it’s not unique to sph. The putrid label was used because of the (I’m getting this second hand and making and inference) stuffed inboxes of many (female mostly) users by sph-ers. No consent or boundary respect is the problem with those, I think. I’m speaking out of place, for the record

You make a good point. Like I said it’s a harmless fetish, but like you said, on its own, it does not deserve the putrid adjective.

Clearly it has no smell (kidding; we all get it)
 
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Good demonstration of the impulse to blame the victims of the phallocracy instead of the phallocracy for the sph phenomenon. Instead of labeling damaged people putrid, we should be acknowledging the widespread damage done by the phallus worship male patriarchy, hierarchy, phallocracy.

When you see a guy pacing up and down on the sidewalk, waving his arms, and thought broadcasting at the top of his lungs do you say "that guy is putrid" or do you say he is mentally ill, a victim of disease or enviroment?
 
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Yes. Some of these guys on the sidewalk violate boundaries (I've seen only a few such women). Some are dangerous. One I had to deal with years ago carried a baseball bat until finally arrested.
 

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No it’s not unique to sph. The putrid label was used because of the (I’m getting this second hand and making and inference) stuffed inboxes of many (female mostly) users by sph-ers. No consent or boundary respect is the problem with those, I think. I’m speaking out of place, for the record

You make a good point. Like I said it’s a harmless fetish, but like you said, on its own, it does not deserve the putrid adjective.

Clearly it has no smell (kidding; we all get it)
The adjectives apply to the act of baiting people in a thread. It's tiring to waste time reading a thread only to realize it's just more wankbait. The SPH crowd is unashamed to use virtually any sub forum on this site to do this. Where's the OP? It's been 6 days, nothing more from him. Nobody took the bait.