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So, I am thirty-two and stuck in a bit of a rut. It seems like I am climbing up hill when it comes to finding a guy. Like others, I struggle against an onslaught of the usual -obes and -ists: racists, colorists, fatphobes, sexists, femmephobes, etc. They’re tantamount to a mob. And the fight is making me tired, so tired I am starting to believe I will never find love. For those in my boat (my boat being the fat, gay, black boat) or partnered with someone who is, how did you/they get to the other side—minimum: loving themselves, max: being happily partnered—without going overboard? Thanks for your compassionate response 