I dont get it, how can you guy just say fuck it? and stop looking.....i don't think i could ever do that...
I have to disagree with the "Fuck it" mentality as well. If we don't recognize what we subconsciously project, we will attract the types that we are not looking for. Know for sure what it is that you want...not what you need. Needing to me, is an obsession: failure waiting to happen. Ask yourself question like, what type of guy do I want, what are my wants from this guy, what can I give to this guy, etc... Then perhaps things will become clearer and more concrete.
Not sure what that means exactly, but if it's a "masculinity" thing I can assure you there are plenty of gay guys out there who roll that way. They may be a bit more elusive, but you can usually smoke them out (pun intended!). :biggrin1:Hey im 19, and all i want is a relationship, i've only ever been on one date all the other times i've been shot down, a couple days ago i was shot down for not being "Gay enough"..i've heard them all *sigh* and im not clingy tyvm ^_^ lol
So you said on your profile that you're 100% Gay.I 28 never had a real relationship. I have met guys that want to have sex with me but none that want more. At least not from where I stand. I would like to have a boyfriend but I can't seem to find anyone that wants more than just sex. Should I just give up and go straight?! I don't really go to bars cause I don't really think that's the best place to meet someone. Does anyone have any suggestions?
this is some depressing shit!
There are two types of gay guys: The ones who only want to fuck, and the clingy, die-hard romantics. From what i've noticed, there's no in-between; You're forced to pick one or the other.
i call shannegans! you're a hot guy. hot guys have sex. ergo, you have sex :biggrin1: which is why i haven't had sex. i'm not hot. my logic is flawless! hahayou think this is depressing....well i've not had sex in a decade!