Am I weird for not being into sex?

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I'm still not convinced of the ROI (return on investment) of sex.

I perceive this as a very weird view; unless of course you work for the IRS.

Barring that I would like to consult with you about my portfolio...

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I perceive this as a very weird view; unless of course you work for the IRS.

Barring that I would like to consult with you about my portfolio...

:wink:

People make all kinds of decisions in their daily lives all with the hope or expectation that what they are putting into it equals or exceeds what they are getting out of it. Sex and love are no different. Economics influences everything.

Many people, if not most, just simply 'write-off' the time, effort and $$$ spent in the pursuit of a partner and the retention of that partner.


What do the numbers say? A cost-benefit analysis of love and sex
 
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It is uncommon, and you'll have to look harder to find a wife/partner who has similar tastes. However, it isn't impossible; I prefer oral sex to anal (vaginal is out of the question for me), and an ex boyfriend of mine had the same preferences. Looking at the variety of porn out there, billions of people have different tastes, and I'm sure much weirder, less common stuff is out there!
 
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As a man, I find that there is a lot of pressure when it comes to having sex. The thing is I'm not really into much more than oral sex. Anal just doesn't do it for me and vaginal sex won't either. I was wondering if anyone else thinks the same way and if you think it is possible to have a great relationship without the pressure of anal or vaginal sex?

I often wonder how much farther ahead I'd be if it were not for the constant distraction of sex. Your condition may be a blessing in disguise. It frees you up for more noble pursuits.
 

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I'm going through a time period now, where I don't fancy sex that much, but I put that down to my loner occupation of being an art student more than anything else though. Perhaps my age has something to do with it too, its well known that as guys get older, hormonal changes can & do occur, so you women out there don't have hold over this area...lol...
However, in saying that, ever heard of natural hormone/biochemical called "Oxytocin"? check out wikipedia for more info etc, covers quite a lot of the body's reactions to bonding and sexual arousal. Food for thought I'd say..
 

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As a man, I find that there is a lot of pressure when it comes to having sex. The thing is I'm not really into much more than oral sex. Anal just doesn't do it for me and vaginal sex won't either. I was wondering if anyone else thinks the same way and if you think it is possible to have a great relationship without the pressure of anal or vaginal sex?

How old are you?
 

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Umm I feel like most people don't understand, which gives me the impression I actually don't understand something, but I don't think you're A-sexual, I don't think you're weird, I think you have a certain preference that makes perfect sense to me. I always thought females enjoyed the actual intercourse more than men, because their sexual organs are on the inside so you need a long cylindrical object to really explore it, while as male sex organs are on the outside so we can be easily stimulated in a similar enough way to a vagina to enjoy it.

I and at least one other guy I know are not super into intercourse itself. I prefer sucking on a pair of breasts or licking a pussy or groping an ass. In fact if you think you're weird my favorite part of the whole experience is kissing. It doesn't mean I don't like sex or am unwilling to engage in the intercourse, so perhaps we're different in that way. Personally I don't mind it, but my little boy spirit just prefers playing with toys and breasts are the best toys ever to me and also kinda like candy to an orphan at the same time. I was even gonna start a thread asking what peoples favorite part of sex was before during and after.

So I guess my first question to you is, do you straight up dislike sex or is it just meh? If it's just meh me and at least 1 other guy are with you. Either way it's a preference thing, some people like getting the sh!t beat outta them, some people like to do some kinda ritual thing, hell apparently a lot of guys wanna fuck their vehicles which is one of several reasons I don't like to be considered a man. If you're weird sir rest assured it gets a lot weirder.

If you are weird embrace it! I do! I love weird, weird = interesting. At risk of destroying the credibility of this post, I wear a highlighter yellow free hugs shirt almost every day, and a dog collar, just to give you a slight idea of how weird I am.
 
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