Umm I feel like most people don't understand, which gives me the impression I actually don't understand something, but I don't think you're A-sexual, I don't think you're weird, I think you have a certain preference that makes perfect sense to me. I always thought females enjoyed the actual intercourse more than men, because their sexual organs are on the inside so you need a long cylindrical object to really explore it, while as male sex organs are on the outside so we can be easily stimulated in a similar enough way to a vagina to enjoy it.
I and at least one other guy I know are not super into intercourse itself. I prefer sucking on a pair of breasts or licking a pussy or groping an ass. In fact if you think you're weird my favorite part of the whole experience is kissing. It doesn't mean I don't like sex or am unwilling to engage in the intercourse, so perhaps we're different in that way. Personally I don't mind it, but my little boy spirit just prefers playing with toys and breasts are the best toys ever to me and also kinda like candy to an orphan at the same time. I was even gonna start a thread asking what peoples favorite part of sex was before during and after.
So I guess my first question to you is, do you straight up dislike sex or is it just meh? If it's just meh me and at least 1 other guy are with you. Either way it's a preference thing, some people like getting the sh!t beat outta them, some people like to do some kinda ritual thing, hell apparently a lot of guys wanna fuck their vehicles which is one of several reasons I don't like to be considered a man. If you're weird sir rest assured it gets a lot weirder.
If you are weird embrace it! I do! I love weird, weird = interesting. At risk of destroying the credibility of this post, I wear a highlighter yellow free hugs shirt almost every day, and a dog collar, just to give you a slight idea of how weird I am.