Am I wrong for liking this craigslist ad

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  1. Rommette

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    Here it is below:

    I want a girl who wants to be used, abused, taken hard, tied down, and fully controlled in the bedroom.

    I’ve tried virtually everything in the BDSM scene, so I’m experienced and open minded. If any of the following gets you wet, send me email.

    RAPE FANTASY
    -You want a guy to rip off your clothes and force you to the ground, fucking you from behind while you struggle to resist him
    -You want to be pushed onto your back while I pin your wrists above your head as I take you, gripping your hair and forcing your face near mine.

    DOMINATION
    -You want a guy to take control of you, to physically control you by pushing you to your knees and forcing your mouth open
    -You want to be given orders, to be called a whore whose job is to suck cock.
    -You want to feel like you are owned, controlled, and dominated, wearing a collar and dog tag that indicates that I own you

    BONDAGE
    -You want to be tied down to bed, spread eagle and blindfolded while I tease you until you are begging for me.
    -You want to be restrained, unable to free yourself, leaving your body in complete control to me

    SADO-MASOCHISM
    -You want to feel pain – you want to be spanked, slapped, choked, fucked so hard that your pussy is sore.

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    Well, that's it....I mean, I like it rough....I always have but I never thought I would be put into the rape fantasy category. Are there lpsgers who are into it? How is it?
     
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    There are some women who are into that stuff I say no.
     
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    I would say no ...

    There is a fine line between fantasy and perversion

    Fantasy is using a feather … Perversion is using the whole chicken!
     
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    I say no as well.
    This guy could actually hurt you...
     
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    If I could have written this ad myself, it would have been for you.
     
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    you asked is it wrong that you like the ad? absolutely not, its not wrong at all. No more wrong that me liking you for liking the ad. ;)
     
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    Why do you ask?
     
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    There's a real fine line there. I am not sure I would walk it with a complete stranger from either point of perspective.
     
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    If it's two consenting adults, it sounds hot.

    I've seen lots of ads women post seeking men that say "husband (or boyfriend) protects." If you go for this kind of fantasy, do it and have fun. But the first couple of times be sure to take someone with you.
     
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    I don't understand why any woman would fantasize about being raped.
     
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    no. in some circles it would be considered quite tame..
     
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    Because it allows a woman who may not feel empowered to express herself sexually to say 'Look what he made me do I didn't want to'.
     
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    What he doesn't mention is he has a small cock and anger issues :tongue:

    "Forcing your face near mine" - you have to question what sort of face he has.

    As for rape fantasies, lost of women have them. I've never acted it out cos its not my cup of tea but people have told me about it.
     
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    Sounds like he has anger toward women. Probably some milquetoasty guy playing tough or some ugly guy who has rejection issues.
     
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    The only thing that's wrong is it can't possibly be true . . . .
     
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    It gave me a little wet twinge up to the "pain" point. I like a passionate man and can delve into the side of being dominated. I'm not into pain tho and would not do this with someone I don't know. To give up all control I would have to trust that person completely.

    And then I would get my boots and my bustier on and it would be MY turn to rule.... he he he.
     
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    I dont fantasize about being raped. I like being submissive and I like it when a guy has control. Guys these days act like pussies.
     
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    No, it means you need to call me :)
     
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    If two adults consent it's okay. You are not wrong for liking it. It's your personal kink, enjoy life. At least you know what you want and what you enjoy. Don't deny yourself the pleasure, like other women tend to on occassion. My wife enjoyed some of those submission aspects before with a special friend we had. It was fun and can be enjoyable. But he too had so much he would do and some limits that he would stop at because he was unsure or unwilling to see how far he could push the envelope.
     
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    I like "rape sex". Just not from men on craigslist.
     
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