I have been with my gf for a year now and literally have gotten maybe 3 or 4 compliments unique to myself. She usually just says very generic things like, "you're the sexiest man alive" or "you're hot" stuff like that. Unfortunately the best compliment she ever gave me was that she liked the way my hair looked coming out of the shower. Whenever I compliment her I tell her specific things like "I love the way your ass jiggles when you walk" "I love your little ballerina feet" things like that that are specific to her, not something generic. I confronted her about this and flat out called her compliments very generic and that it would be nice to hear something specific about me instead of some broad sweeping universal compliment. She got in my face about how its not her job to make me feel good about myself. I guess my argument is that I know its not her job to make me feel better about myself but I have never been with someone so cold about complimenting the one they love. And whenever I tell her something I feel about her that I love I feel like a jackass because I know I will never get the same type of thing back. Am I an asshole or something?