Hey all you out in LPSG land, I got a question. A little about my self first: I'm new to LPSG.org, I'm 23, 7"x5" cut, 5"10 with green eyes and dirty blonde hair, and been in a relationship for over 2 years now. While I was growing up, I've known I was gay, but am very str8 acting and told very few people. I only came out to my family when my mother did... yes you read that right, cause I wasn't the only 1 in the family I guess I felt not so alone. She divorced my father to pursue an alternative life style. For many years after I came out, my family thought i was "gay" becuase I wanted to be more like my mom, we were always close, but this isnt why. I've known I was for MANY years before she told us. So, my question is, is it abnormal to be so against anal penetration? My boyfriend wants to try "Different" stuff but, for me, I am repulsed by the thought. And its not becuase of him, as much as I try to re-assure him, I love him dearly and I feel the same about that kind of sex when I think of doing it with anybody. I dont know why, but to me, its a major turn-off. I've tried being top and bottom with him, but it all feels the same. Is it possible to hold a relationship in these conditions? Is Anal realy necessary for gay male couples? Has anybody had a similar experience?