Amount of men your girlfriends been with

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  1. footballstar20

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    My girlfriend recently told me the real amount of partners she has been with. I was a little shocked at the fact that she lied to me but realized that I would not have acted the same when I first met her if she told me the truth. So, how many partners has your mate been with before you? What is the average amount a 20-22 year old girl might have and what is considered high?
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    my current mate and i have been together for 18 years and i was her first...now my first wife on the other hand....at the age of 20 had been around more than a 50 year old hooker!As far as whats considered a high number...i cant say as everyone views that differently but....if her formers are enough to fill a phone book....THATS DEFINATELY CONSIDERED TOO MANY FOR A20-22 YEAR OLD! reminescent of my first wife...like a door knob..everyone has had a turn.
     
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    Why does 'the number' matter? I mean, seriously. The fact that two people are compatible should be what a relationship is about. I have never asked any girlfriend how many men she has been with and when they have asked me (and most have) I have been honest. As for how many is too many? I don't know that it's relevant, is it?
    Why should that matter?
     
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    This in fact does cause many couples to call it quits,i have a good friend who was engaged to this hot ass red-head and her being only 21 he assumed she hadnt been around much...WRONG!he came across her journal with a whole shitload of formers with stars rating each one as to how good they were in the sack,that combined with an ass load of nude pics and mini films was more than the poor guy could take and he promptly called the wedding off and kicked her to the curb .The truth often times is best not known folks...thus being why lies are soo popular.
     
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    my actual gf had sex with 3 guys before me, shes's almost 26 and we've beentogheter for 3 years. I tought they were not much, especially for her self confidence in bed.. Anyway I always tought she had less partners than all other girls I know..
     
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    For many guys being with whats known as an anybodys aka..the town slut is unbearable no matter how compatible they may be,oftentimes when the truth comes out...and it always does...its history.
     
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    3 is acceptable and by some standards considered low for a 26 year old but...if it were 30,it'd be a different ballgame.
     
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    Why would 30 be a different ball game? Assuming she was careful and clean as a whistle, why is 30 a problem? Pehaps she might have learned something to do with you that you hadn't done before...
    Education is never a waste.
     
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    most of the girls ( not porn or anything) that I have been with had been with only a few. Then again there had been young girls 14-15 that had been with over 20 guys already.... that is way too much.
    MY current gf has only had one,me.


    You must think about a formula. And that would be, how many bad relationships can you have in 4 -5 years.... ( this is just for 20 yr old girls) thinking that they started having sex at age 15-16.. most good girls start at 17-19 yr old. So most good** girls will only have about 1+2 guys until they reach 20. Now, to the question. How many bad relationships can you have in 4-5 years if she started having sex at 15 yr old? Lets just say first boyfriend she waited a long time to have sex and kept it for a year or so.. most of the time is like this. Then at 17 she could have a bad relationship.. few months? if she is a good girl she would always wait for the right one.



    To make this short, at 20 yr old more less than 3 guys is good honest girl. 4-7 guys begining to think that she is a failure to have long relationships or could care less about it. Or lets just say she is a good girl that guys took advantage of..too many bad relationships. the last category 8-15 in such a small period of time is seriously something to think about, higher AIDS rates etc. You guys know what the category is when this group of girls reach 16 or more guys at 20 yr of age. It is like a category 6 Hurricane :D
    I have seen some girls have 20 guys in less than a year, so there are many like that..

    Then again if a women is 30 yr of age she should know what she is doing.. no that many bad relationships like those of 20 or less yr old. :) after 20 yr old more than 2 relationships per year should bring some concerns.


    I know you probably didn't ask for all this but this is my definition of good girl to keep.

    20 yr old no more than 3 guys.
    22 yr old no more than 5 guys.
    25 yr old no more than 8 guys.
    30 yr old no more than 10 guys.
    35 yr old no more than *think about your future*

    Those are numbers of bad relationships..
    while 3/5 of all women will have less than 3 guys in her life.
     
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    Judging a girl based on how many guys she's slept with is fucking stupid, I'm sorry. If a girl's had sex with 5 guys her entire life, but four of those were in reoccurring gangbangs with some sleazy guys and no protection was involved, would you REALLY think she'd be more acceptable than a girl who has had sex with 15 guys, each being boyfriends or fiances at the time?

    It's guys that judge women based on how many dicks they've come across that are the dicks that give them complexes. Society's completely hypocritical by giving us the nod for sleeping around and scoring notches in the bed post, and labeling women whores when they do the same.

    What's truly sad... is most of the guys who DO judge women in this manner, probably do it mostly because society teaches us that promiscuous women are to be looked down on, but some part of it (and this is my own personal opinion) is probably spite that some of these girls are the kinds that wouldn't fuck YOU, and that's the real issue. Not that she's fucked 10 guys, but she fucked 10 guys who weren't you ;).

    Just imagine, if women didn't have to deal with the bullshit stigmas and labels, how much more sex everyone could have without all the hangups and drama?

    :)
     
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    LOL... if you've ever taken a course in logic, you'd be well advised to define your terms before using them. What defines "good" in your term of good girl? I'm deducing from your post that it consists of just a waiting/grace period in between boyfriends/sexual partners. If a woman waits 20 years between sexual partners but murders 5 people, is she still a good girl for having an extended mourning of her failed relationship? lol

    Also... Where did you come up with your claim of "3/5 of all women will have less than 3 guys in her life?"

    I've known a lot of women in my life and that number is FAR off from what I've encountered.

    I'm basically throwing yellow bullshit flags all over your post until you can provide some kind of backing for your claims.
     
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    "Amount" of men?????

    Do you measure that by the weight?

    I'd say 20 metric tons for me.
     
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    Maybe just maybe, in the real world, far away from this shallow website, the idea of being with an open kneed slut isn't very attractive.

    What you're saying is lovely for an audience whose sex life consists of porn and lying about their penis size, but in the real world it matters.
     
  14. bearsnotcubs

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    chubby chaser? lol
     
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    He was asked a question and gave HIS opinion.

    It differed from yours.

    Get over it.
     
  16. bearsnotcubs

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    Saying something with definitive figures isn't an opinion. He should have said, "I think that..." before his entire post. He offered up a formula (lol@that btw) on how women should be judged.

    GTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF.
     
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    I'm sorry, but what difference does it make? How would guys feel if they were given a negative rating according to the number of people they'd had sex with? I think it's a bit rich for guys who'll screw anything with a hole that will stay still long enough to expect women to be virgins on their wedding night. Talk about double standards.

    Another point for guys who're involved with a more experienced woman and feel inadequate or jealous, at the end of the day, she's gone out, had some experience, and, based on that experience, has chosen you. You've got to be better than all the other guys she's had or she's have moved on long ago, so stop using her past as an excuse to have a got at her. Take it as a compliment that you meet her standards.
     
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    My girl is 30 and been with 12 guys, including myself. I was pretty relieved to hear this, given recent trends in that department. My ex was 23 and had been with over double that amount.
     
  19. ManlyBanisters

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    I sometimes wonder if it is the competition men are afraid of...

    Anyway - that might be a topic of discussion for another thread- what I wanted to say in this thread is that a guy (or even a girl) giving a fuck about about the number of partners a woman has had plays a lot on the mistaken idea that a lot of men (and some women, mysteriously enough) have that if a woman will fuck one guy she will fuck every guy.

    This is simply not true. No more than it is true that all straight man will fuck any woman that offers, no more than it is true that all gay man will fuck any man that offers. Funnily enough lesbians seem to be off the hook on this one.

    Perhaps the men who worry about this, the men who really do believe that if a woman has fucked pretty much anyone else she will be 'an open kneed slut' for everyone, maybe THOSE guys are the real sluts because they would fuck anyone who offers - and they are mistakenly applying their own morals to others.
     
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    IMO ... the number of partners your girlfriend/boyfriend/fiance/partner/spouse has had ... is a complete and total distraction from the reality of the person in front of you.
     
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