Plowboy: Before I got married, many moons ago. I was having sex about 3 to 4 times a day with live-in female friends, so sex for breakfast, go home for lunch/sex and then supper time/sex, and on the weekends it would be that 4th casual sex thing where I'm bored she is bored so we screw our brains out and all is better in the world. I would say if I remember right I had 9 partners before I was married, but once married I have only my wife and as for sex. The first 10yrs of sex was great, it was almost like any place any time, then the first baby came and it was sex once a week, well then after 5 yrs the second baby comes and then it was sex once every 2 weeks, now after 20+yrs of marriage, she is working the nighshift and I am days, I would say once a month is about as good as it gets. I also have to admit I do alot of hand jiving these days too. I still need release or I would die of sperm retention. She knows it and so she is cool about it too. I have to admit when we do have time together its well worth the wait, but it never seems to last long enough darn it :
They say there is 3 stages to the sex life of a marriage.
1st stage you have sex any place, any time, any place.
2nd stage you have sex on birthdays, holidays and special occassions.
3rd stage you pass each other in the hall and go 'fuck you , fuck you too'
I am somewhere between the 2nd and 3rd stage, I just hope the 3rd stage holds off until I am 80 ;D