suitinthecity: Hey guys - firstly let me say I prefer women over men, but I do love to be fucked! So I swing both ways. Problem is, I usually always find that I attract men that only want to be fucked by me - when they see my cock they all seem eager to jump on and try it out like its some amusement park ride! Thing is, when I'm after a guy, it's usually because I want to be fucked. If I wanted to top - I would much prefer to do that with a woman. Any other guys have this problem??