First you need to verify a pic so that in the unlikely event that you are an 18 year old female virgin at least you can kind of prove it.
Second - spend some time here, a few months, to get to know the good people and to avoid falling prey to low lifes. You'll enjoy it, and you'll get some ideas about how you want to pop that cherry. Just don't rush into it, and remember, always use a condom and never meet an Internet "friend" in a private place for the first time. Meet first for a lunch date somewhere public, (in daylight) and don't go home on the first date.
Also, the ladies here are well smart and fun too. Get to know them, they're full of good ideas.
We are just concerned for your safety, that's all.