An email I got today, what would you do?

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The only answer I can see is lisasdong believes thatgal should protect her son from the inapropriate judgement of the woefully underdeveloped individuals who fear the gifts of their own bodies, and fear the sexual beings which live inside of us all.

That pretty much sums it up.

All adults have a private life they keep from their kids, sexual and/or otherwise. Part of thatgal's happens to be on the mostly anonymous internet instead of, say, at a local bar. Are parents' genitals supposed to atrophy and fall off once we're done breeding?
 

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That pretty much sums it up.

All adults have a private life they keep from their kids, sexual and/or otherwise. Part of thatgal's happens to be on the mostly anonymous internet instead of, say, at a local bar. Are parents' genitals supposed to atrophy and fall off once we're done breeding?


Yes, especially a mother's. Women are breeding machines, and cum recepticles to that end. You know that. Sheesh. I thought you were smart. :rolleyes:
 

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Yes, especially a mother's. Women are breeding machines, and cum recepticles to that end. You know that. Sheesh. I thought you were smart. :rolleyes:

Fuck, you're right. I'm so stupid. I haven't been pregnant for over two years, either, so I better get to some breedin' sos I can be a good, decent, useful woman.
 

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Any anonymous letter is always sent to protect the sender's identity, she's a cowardly bitch who doesn't have the guts to identify herself and take any comeback her actions might have and in my opinion you made the wrong move by giving in to her. There's nothing wrong with being on this site, you're a single woman well over the age of consent and any choice you make about what you enjoy doing in your spare time is your choice. You're enjoying chatting on here, flirting a little, what's wrong with that? Nothing at all except in the eyes of some puriticanical killjoy who thinks she has the right to tell you what to do.

This opinion, and most of the others expressed in this thread, are perfectly acceptable so long as TG saves enough money to be able to afford the psychologist her son will almost certainly need if raised by someone with such a narrow, selfish view of parental responsibility.

TG wouldn't have asked the original question if she didn't have some idea what the right answer was. You are all giving her what she hoped to receive - rationalization to do whatever she pleased, regardless of consequences, and a healthy measure of condemnation for the puritanical bitch.

To reiterate, such selfishness was TG's prerogative up until she had a child, at which point her desires are no longer priority #1. Except in LPSG-world, evidently.

I am not, in fact, the puritanical bitch in question. But I understand how it makes it a bit more convenient to assume otherwise.
 

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I personally am done with the topic. People are free to add their opinions if they feel the need. I have too much going on with my health, a dying grandparent, and trying to get well enough within a couple of months to take care of my son again.

Maybe I am a selfish bitch for asking my mom to take him when my health crashed again. He is my main concern, nobody else here or their opinion.

If you don't like what I have to say fine. I'm done. I'm sick from stupid idiot doctors and nurses who don't listen and I need to focus on healing myself at the moment. Those who know me well know I am all about family and wouldn't ever do anything to intentionally hurt my child.

I think even though it was hard on me to send my son with my mom last week. It was the best thing that could have done for him so he has stability. He is 5 years old, he is NOT on this board and never sees or did see it. My personal life is that....my life! Enough said.

Fuck it if you don't agree, I don't care anymore.
 

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Why don't you blow it out your arse lisa, it seems apparent you've only joined this site to bitch and whine and try to impose your narrow minded view of life, you seem to feel sex is somehow dirty, Queen Victoria died some time ago. Sex is a normal human instinct, the expression of that is normal, and to think that sex should be something totally secret is going to harm a kid much more than having a mum who's fun and open about sex - there are lots of mothers who post on here, by your lights we're all bad mothers. Maybe you need to take a good look at yourself before offering bad pop psychology opinions.
 

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This opinion, and most of the others expressed in this thread, are perfectly acceptable so long as TG saves enough money to be able to afford the psychologist her son will almost certainly need if raised by someone with such a narrow, selfish view of parental responsibility.

Do you have a broad view of parental responsibility? How laughable! I'd sooner fear for your children than thatgal's, snoozan's, SP's, or quite a few other people I met on this website. Unless you're a hypocrite, your childless anyway, and likely (though admittedly not necessarily) unqualified to pass judgement in this way anyway.


I am not, in fact, the puritanical bitch in question. But I understand how it makes it a bit more convenient to assume otherwise.

I don't need convenience. I saw a pattern which made me suspicious. You clearly are an intelligent woman. I will assume you know the difference between a suspicion and an assumption.

The only one here clinging to convenience is she who refuses to stand by her own words. You refuse to explain your position, stating that anyone who doesn't fully understand your position without any further clarification wouldn't understand the explanation thereof anyway. Now that sounds pretty darn convenient to me. Cowardly, too.

And please tell me you aren't the puritanical pot calling the puritanical kettle black?
 

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Why don't you blow it out your arse lisa, it seems apparent you've only joined this site to bitch and whine and try to impose your narrow minded view of life.

I'll remind you that the OP asked a question, and in fact laid out a series of possible answers she evidently would have considered reasonable. I offered my opinion on the matter, which was in fact one of those possible answers, and then got attacked for it. Thanks so much. It seems apparent that you're the one with the narrow minded view.
 

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I personally am done with the topic. People are free to add their opinions if they feel the need. I have too much going on with my health, a dying grandparent, and trying to get well enough within a couple of months to take care of my son again.

Maybe I am a selfish bitch for asking my mom to take him when my health crashed again. He is my main concern, nobody else here or their opinion.

If you don't like what I have to say fine. I'm done. I'm sick from stupid idiot doctors and nurses who don't listen and I need to focus on healing myself at the moment. Those who know me well know I am all about family and wouldn't ever do anything to intentionally hurt my child.

I think even though it was hard on me to send my son with my mom last week. It was the best thing that could have done for him so he has stability. He is 5 years old, he is NOT on this board and never sees or did see it. My personal life is that....my life! Enough said.

Fuck it if you don't agree, I don't care anymore.

I can't tell if I am among those you're pissed at, or if you're -only- pissed at me, but for what it's worth, I think you did the right thing by your son in taking down the naked stuff. Kudos, and good luck.
 

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There's stating your opinion and there's stating it in an obnoxious offensive way lisa, you always seem to go for the obnoxious offensive way. Posting naked on a site like this has no bearing on your ability to be a good mother, and for you to imply that a woman who posts on here is going to have to have her child enter therapy somewhere along the line is nothing short of insulting and ignorant.
 

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thanks for the support on this everyone but really this person is not worth our time or energy. She has her own agenda, no need to play into her hand!
 

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I can't tell if I am among those you're pissed at, or if you're -only- pissed at me, but for what it's worth, I think you did the right thing by your son in taking down the naked stuff. Kudos, and good luck. As if she cares about your narrow-minded, puritanical opinion.:mad:

I'll remind you that the OP asked a question, and in fact laid out a series of possible answers she evidently would have considered reasonable. I offered my opinion on the matter, which was in fact one of those possible answers, and then got attacked for it. Thanks so much. It seems apparent that you're the one with the narrow minded view.
Why is it you can't state an opinion w/o being ignorant, offensive, and obnoxious!

Here's a tip: Before you post check the person to whom you are respondings posts history. It can be very insightful, and it helps to give you a more than one dimensional view of a person. Had you done this you would have realized that the OP is one of the most intelligent people on this site or any other forum you will likely encounter. She also has a sharp wit and a delightful joie de vivre. She is one of the most caring and generous people and has always put her sons needs above her own. I am privileged to have made her acquaintance; and extremely sorry she had to put up with your crap at such a difficult time in her life..

 

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I'll remind you that the OP asked a question, and in fact laid out a series of possible answers she evidently would have considered reasonable. I offered my opinion on the matter, which was in fact one of those possible answers, and then got attacked for it. Thanks so much. It seems apparent that you're the one with the narrow minded view.

No one really has any issue with your opinion. Why would they? You were asked to clarify your position, you may even have been asked to defend your position. When you chose to refuse to clarify your views, you did so in the most condescending and rude way possible.

I still maintain that you cannot clarify because ther is no good answer, and not for any other reason. If there were any other reason, you'd not have felt the need to lash out in your response to my query. Both times I asked were done in a polite manner. But all your "good" ideas on parenting didn'y give you the notion that deport and manner are important too. Your children will be douches if they live by your example. Just what the world needs. Oh, but at least they'll know to fear and shame their bodies. That's important.

... the OP is one of the most intelligent people on this site or any other forum you will likely encounter. She also has a sharp wit and a delightful joie de vivre. She is one of the most caring and generous people and has always put her sons needs above her own. I am privileged to have made her acquaintance; and extremely sorry she had to put up with your crap at such a difficult time in her life..

I am in complete agreement with the above.
 

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I can't tell if I am among those you're pissed at, or if you're -only- pissed at me, but for what it's worth, I think you did the right thing by your son in taking down the naked stuff. Kudos, and good luck. As if she cares about your narrow-minded, puritanical opinion.:mad:

I'll remind you that the OP asked a question, and in fact laid out a series of possible answers she evidently would have considered reasonable. I offered my opinion on the matter, which was in fact one of those possible answers, and then got attacked for it. Thanks so much. It seems apparent that you're the one with the narrow minded view.
Why is it you can't state an opinion w/o being ignorant, offensive, and obnoxious!

Here's a tip: Before you post check the person to whom you are respondings posts history. It can be very insightful, and it helps to give you a more than one dimensional view of a person. Had you done this you would have realized that the OP is one of the most intelligent people on this site or any other forum you will likely encounter. She also has a sharp wit and a delightful joie de vivre. She is one of the most caring and generous people and has always put her sons needs above her own. I am privileged to have made her acquaintance; and extremely sorry she had to put up with your crap at such a difficult time in her life..

I disagree with your assessment.
 

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I still maintain that you cannot clarify because ther is no good answer, and not for any other reason. If there were any other reason, you'd not have felt the need to lash out in your response to my query. Both times I asked were done in a polite manner. But all your "good" ideas on parenting didn'y give you the notion that deport and manner are important too. Your children will be douches if they live by your example. Just what the world needs. Oh, but at least they'll know to fear and shame their bodies. That's important.

I stand by what I said. I don't think there's any chance you would understand the answer to the question you asked, and therefore, why would I waste my time? I assumed the OP would understand, otherwise she wouldn't have asked in the first place and offered the option. Seeing now, however, how she has responded, I wouldn't have wasted the time on her either.

By the way - there are quite a few distinctions to be made before one gets to the point at which one is "ashamed" of his or her body. But this gets back to the main point, which is that you wouldn't understand the distinctions either.