mermaiden: Would someone/has someone tried this and can give feed back? I read about it years ago but couldnot get anyone to try it. GUYS-the next time you are having sex and are ready to cum, try to have an orgasm without ejaculating. The book I read described it as being similar to the sensation of stopping the flow of urine when peeing. The results/benefits are the ability to 'bounce back' more quickly and having a shorter recovery time. the theory being men don't have to ejaculate in order to have an orgasm. The goal is to try and only ejaculate once every 3rd time you cum. Who wanrts to try it and report back your results? books I read t in are The Tao of Sex/The Tao of Sex II thanks!