An experiment! Any takers?!?

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  1. Imported

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    mermaiden: Would someone/has someone tried this and can give feed back? I read about it years ago but couldnot get anyone to try it.

    GUYS-the next time you are having sex and are ready to cum, try to have an orgasm without ejaculating.

    The book I read described it as being similar to the sensation of stopping the flow of urine when peeing.

    The results/benefits are the ability to 'bounce back' more quickly and having a shorter recovery time. the theory being men don't have to ejaculate in order to have an orgasm. The goal is to try and only ejaculate once every 3rd time you cum.


    Who wanrts to try it and report back your results?

    books I read t in are The Tao of Sex/The Tao of Sex II

    thanks!
     
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    H8Monga: Well... I only have sex with my hand! ;D

    Stopping it is kind of hard to do, but I have done it before but not consciously. I can "bounce back" fairly quickly either way. Maybe I can try doing that on purpose.
     
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    suitinthecity: I've tried this and it didn't really work for me. I found the orgasm was more intense, but it took more energy, both physical and mental, to hold it back than releasing and I consequently found it took a bit longer to get hard again.

    Under normal circumstances I'm usually able to just keep going after my first ejaculation. First time I can really make it last, but the second and consequent ejaculations usually then come with greater frequency - a case of once the flood gates are opened!

    I guess I just like to let the fluids flow (and flow and flow). Sex for me is as much a mental meeting of minds as it is the physical pressing of flesh! Being a good lover really arouses me and I usually get more sexually from pleasuring and getting my partner off than from the actual physical stimulation of my own cock.

    And here in lies the secret - to not think of sex in terms of your own orgasm/ejaculation as the climax to it all, but to be really in tune with your partners pleasure. The biggest turn on for me is to give my partner the best sex that he/she has ever had every time - this way I find I may cum 3, 4 or 5 times before I really "climax" and can remain hard and completely aroused throughout. While ever my partner is getting off on what I'm doing and wanting more I'll be completely aroused by doing exactly that for them, whatever that may be!
     
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    Late_Bloomer: Indeed it is possible and I have done it. It's a weird sensation and not as good as a normal orgasm, but still better than nothing. It still feels like you come a little bit, but you actually don't, so I guess that's why I say it feels weird.

    Still, I think the come builds up afterwards and it also makes it so that you can't last as long if you keep going through it, which you can because you stay hard afterwards. (At least I do.) Last time I did it my girlfriend wanted me to pull out and come on her belly, and the load was INSANE, hence why I think it might build up...

    Still, it extends the time for sex, which is always a plus, and you get a couple of mini-orgasms before the huge one.
     
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    Antin: I too have had this type of experience.
     
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    mekkler: I have heard of this, didn't really want to try it. It seem kind of like chewing a big juicy bite of prime rib and spitting it out. :(
     
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    runner074: So, tell me guys, how exaclty is this done??

    I have heard about the whole PC muscle thing. Is this basically the same thing or what?
     
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    BIGBOYDAVE: I have this experience all the time. In my job as an escort I often have to have sex 3-4 times in a 14 hr period then start again next day sometimes as many as 15 times or more a week so If I can, I hold off on cuming, but still have incredable orgasms including fully body ones without full or any ejaculations. 90% of the time the client cums before I do, then they say save it for the next. there are those who want you to cum first but I have lots of stamna so can usually outlast most of them and they are usually enjoying the powerfuck so much or enjoying giving a blowjob to the biggest they have ever seen that they soon forget about it and away the go or shoulid I say Blow :)
     
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    "Never try to suppress a sneeze; you might blow your brains out."
     
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    DMW -

    You mean if I try to suppress an ejaculation I'll blow my balls off?

    ???

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    H8Monga: :D

    I had this on my mind... and I lost... sorry :-[
    And I can flush stamina down the toilet with the tissue... :-[
     
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    davegoodie: Yes it does work and I can do it sometimes. However I have also mastered the art of ejaculating a little before orgasm. This is great as I can give my partner (or myself) some tasty spunk to drink in advance of the big event.
     
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    vikingstone: I have tried this as well...squeezing down hard on that PC muscle as the point of no return is building. The orgasmic feeling is quite wild but in the end I had a congested sort of feeling that I really didn't enjoy. Plus even though I'd been working on the PC muscle, it still felt a bit sore or just kind of "hassled" if you know what I mean. Lots of exertion and a sort of energy drain. I was still quite hard and could perform again within normal parameters, but it just wasn't as satisfying.

    I've also read that the practice isn't really that great for you physically.
     
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    BIGBOYDAVE: [quote author=vikingstone link=board=sex;num=1048476631;start=0#12 date=03/25/03 at 13:29:41]I have tried this as well...squeezing down hard on that PC muscle as the point of no return is building.  

    excuse my ignorance but what is the PC muscle? ???
     
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    vikingstone: It's the muscle you squeeze when you want to stop urinating. Actually that may be a misnomer...I believe the actual PC muscle is a female thing...pubcocygeus (sp?) is the name, I think...it's been so long since I was in medical school...lol Oh no, wait, that was Albert Schweitzer. Sorry.
     
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    BIGBOYDAVE: [quote author=vikingstone link=board=sex;num=1048476631;start=0#14 date=03/25/03 at 14:13:32]It's the muscle you squeeze when you want to stop urinating.  Actually that may be a misnomer...I believe the actual PC muscle is a female thing...pubcocygeus (sp?) is the name, I think...it's been so long since I was in medical school...lol  Oh no, wait, that was Albert Schweitzer.  Sorry.[/quote]

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    thickun: I have done this and do this quite often. It is similar to having a multiple orgasm. It is much easier to do when masturbating, but I have done it when having sex. It does involve using the PC muscles in a sort of clinching and unclenching way. The easiest way for me involves lessening the intensity of thrusts or of using my hand. The result for me is masturbation that lasts a long time and sex that lasts a long time. I basically am able to control when I cum. It has taken lots of practice to hold off, but you have to really concentrate. If I haven’t had sex in a little while I am able to make it cum several feet. I haven’t really had the opportunity to deal with the bounce back part for two reasons. One, I usually am still a little hard after I cum. Two, the women I have been with are usually to worn out to go for another round. Also, if I am doing myself I can go for two hours or more for the fun of it. I usually don’t wont to go another round after that because I am worn out myself. Also, even though I might still be a little hard afterwards, I haven’t noticed any difference in the rebound time.
     
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    mermaiden: Well! This has been most enlightening!! Thank you all for your contributions!

    Dave...do male escorts date? If so why and what do you tell your date that you do for a living?
     
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    Tachnuk: I 've experienced this. over the last couple years.
    It's always been by accident, not choice, and I think in part due to how tight the combination of my large penis, and my wife's small vagina is.
    Anyway, it feels like a cross between a mild orgasm and that feeling you get when you have had to piss really bad, and had to hold it for a long time. especially if it's cold, and you finally get to piss and get that feeling of relief that's almost sexual.

    It's not something I'd want _instead_ of a regular orgasm. But it's not bad before one. I've had sex where I had two of these things. I just pumped away at her, and then this wierd feeling, and I didn't lose any of my erection so I kept on humping. I had one more. When I finally did cum for real, it was pretty intense. And she was mighty impressed.
     
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    mba2003: When I masturbate I almost never ejaculate. The orgasm is still really internse, but the best thing is that there's no mess to clean up and I can go right to sleep. When I'm with someone I always shoot, though :)
     
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