I think you need to be careful how literally you transfer male behaviour from x thousand years ago.
Yes we have a Y chromosome, adrenaline and testosterone, but more importantly we have a brain that allows us to adapt. Where there seems to be disagreement is how men should adapt these differences within a modern context to be a "successful" male.
Some men don't guage their success on how many women want their babies
:biggrin1: Remarkable, but true.
For sure I do agree about those transferences playing like that...bringing data from xxxx years to explain somethings that just are into our faces. I do think that behind those comments we see as why women likes jerks and etc that maybe becoming from men bad experiences as analizing what they observe as growing up but without much acuracy as what they see as jerk /dick/dog/whatever, it is explain even at Urban Dictionary
Urban Dictionary: jerk
Who would like a jerk+=idiot,stupid, insensitive, manipulative etc?
I think it may happens we as women to experience at least 1 jerk in our lives and learn the lesson, as many women experience a married men as he was playing single etc etc...we all have the surprise to have bad experiences but we are supose to learn with our mistakes and detect the many signals of approaching jerks and our radars next time reject them..but hey there are jerks that may become very sophisticated with experiences aquired and we may fall a 2nd time...
Who knows? But to choose the jerks knowingly they are who they are and the games they play its kind of you are "asking for it" whatever may come to your way.
But to me is very obvious that what some may call a jerk is the popular guy, yeh that guy who was born charming his way around and conquering females hearts starting by mom and evrybody else... They are who they are students, lovers of women by the time he is at the age to engage with them they are sucessful and their fames goes around. They can get into confuse situations because they are being still inexperienced novice but still honest with their many conquists as loving women. And women looking to hook up with them by the flocks..sure they are interesting, exciting and etc. They are into women and enjoying them, confortable in their skins, confident in themselves etc etc many of them at some point in their lives become domesticated, others 1/2 domesticated and others eternal Casanovas...:tongue: women choose them because they are great company, lovers and understand them...many dont mind be one of many they have ..they want to have fun.
What I see that maybe behind many comments as "why women prefer/choose" jerks as comming from guys who had the experience in their lives very early of not being popular and looking the popular guys attracting most of the girls, very easy. But as much I heard and see portrait in movies what people call the 'nerd' caricature, but taking exagerations apart we may understand how a guy must feel getting left behind most of the time. But by being a nerd he 'still' have his brain in his favor that would for sure will give sucess at near future, and things will turn around... as the portraited popular guy is many times the dumb athletic star who soon will not have a future be bitter and not phisicaly attract anyone because he will become a couch potato etc...yeh right...steryotypes all over the place. But strange it maybe touches the experiences of many average guys.
As not raised in US society and culture I was expose to different traits in men behave conquering as many see as macho culture there are things in there that I trully miss as men using charming seduction, sensuality as dancing games...sure men in those culture may cheats as crazy and sometimes is expected they go charming all their lives..but women already keeping up with their attitudes and no men want to be a "corno" with horns in his fronthead..LOL. I learn here at LPSG by asking question about how many women a man must need to satysfied their animalist sexual urges... many surprised me they dont cheat, they control the urges to cheat..what was a surprise to me. Well...
If I was a "nerd"...I would choose to work in myself and become confident and not stuck there in the corner as espectador and getting bitter... Who are those calling themselves good guys really? Who many times say there are left behind by women choosing loosers, jerks etc? They are maybe passing vibes by their attitudes and many losses as conquering as defeted already. Any person like that will not be attractive and people not choose to be around even as friend, imagine to romance and get into the sack?
To me the best quality in people is to be authentic, really confy with who they are ..this is very attractive to me..plus for sure with that be passionate vibrant about things. Is a full package in a person that we choose to engage with its fun, alive, vibrant. Its is physical but must excite the brain too. In the past I thought opposites attracts now I'm sure equals personalities and etc are the ones who attracts me. With what specific genes they come I have no ideia but the similarities with my own are striking and match, we are at the same pace..not much to explain our ways just to discover more and more..what is very very exciting and cool. To me.
My oppinion.