Kayman, I kept coming back to this thread because i found it interesting..I think what it comes right down to it..with the cultural differences you will have to understand there will be differences we will never understand..We are who we are. We all have our own way of thinking, our own insecurities,our own interpretations wheather it is within our own race or the color of ones skin. Some races have different shaped eyes or most Norwegians are known to mostly for having Blonde hair and pale skin. Even within the Black culture you have discrimination with Blacks who are lighter then others. We never will have all of the answers. Excuse the pun but life is not black and white. Our world is constantly evolving..The United States is a melting pot of different cultures trying to live side by side and enjoy the freedoms we have.Face it some other undeveloped countries will hang you for being gay. Some countries repress their woman.The list goes on..All that i am trying to say to you is, when the man of your dream meets you, you will know it. You never know, he might be a mix of Black, White Asian, and Spanish..In the mean time try to be happy and embrace the differences between us all
Thanks for the concern, but I'm already very well-versed and experienced in our respective differences and how dating goes for everyone. I was just speaking on my own personal experiences, and what I've learned is right or not right for me on interracial intimate interactions. Personally, I strive to live in a very diverse environment because I hate being in places where things are ethnically or racially 'ghettoize' or homogeneous.
I was just trying to generate an open discussion on this topic. It is much healthier to speak on what is or is not right with this particular segment of the dating and relationships. It is obvious when we tacitly do things and let it fester like topics on race in general has in the US, and we wind up reaping what is sowed on this subject with the awkward race relations as of now.
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