- Joined
- Dec 29, 2005
- Posts
- 4,588
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 130
- Points
- 183
- Location
- Plimoth Plantation
- Sexuality
- No Response
- Gender
- Male
Atia said:You have given me food for thought. In all honesty, I have alway felt the same way about bi-sexuals. I guess I needed to read it *out loud* to confirm what I already know.
*hugs*
P.S. Big fan of SATC too!
Hi Atia-
I don't want it to appear that I making a broad generalization as I outlined in the previous to Matthew. I go through life observing and gathering my "take" or informed opinion on what I see happening to and around me.
I still maintain that to be in love with a "bisexual" man is a tough roe to hoe and that much as the perks are many there's a side to it that makes you (or any one in your position) need to weigh the thing pretty seriously.
When I tell you that the woman I was involved with (for three years) still maintains I'm the only man that gave her an orgasm... I'm not saying it to pat myself on the back. But according to her it appears many hetereosexual men (again in HER experience) are much less inclined to perform oral sex on women than the bisexual one's she's dated. I sense there's an emotional commitment to the sexual act with women more often than there is with men and that being the case women are attracted to bisexual men who are decidedly as interested in what's "upstairs" as they are what's "downstairs". I think heterosexual dudes could take a lesson in fact.
In her words? "Personally I find heterosexual men in general boring, self-involved, and lousy in bed".
Now don't lynch me!! Again, I repeat, this is her quote not mine. But I'm trying to give Atia the benefit of my experience.
Cheers Atia.... SATC (even in rerun) never ceases to make me roar and Samantha is just a freaking hoot!