Honestly **enema bag*** You use warm water so that you do not get cramps!!!! Me being a gay male bottom meaning the partner would be sticking his large member in ME! Now for after 6 full bags trust me you are squeaky clean. Then rub a little gel based tooth paste on your asshole while in the shower. Then the rimm job you are going to get is mint freash lol. (for large membered men) EUROS lubricant is the best there product its stays smooth doesnt get takey or dry out. Also be aware that anal sex isnt painful if done correct. Make out have foreplay and take some lube and massage the spincter. Work the lube in put a little more so on and so on till the entrance is ready then suit the member up put lube on all sides the the suit..(and a little extra dabb on the spincter. The tease it in with the tip and then back off the dip it back in and back off each time put another little dabb of lube till you are all the way in and enjoying it!!! Then if you are going to go full throttle and be toltally pounding PULL ALL out and then PUT a good squease of lube in the freshly opened spincter. Then you can put it back in and good long hard and deep fast and you never wear the ass out where they are asking are you almost done cause they are in discomfort.