hell when i saw this post i HAD to reply..i always always always douche my ass, whether i am having sex or not..to me i just feel cleaner , i can't imagine NOT douching my ass....i have a small plastic bottle with a spout, works excellent....to all of the men who don't douche , at the end of the day feel your asshole, u will see how moist it gets, that is because the excess crap in your ass is seeping out...how gross is that..when u take a crap, and u don't douche, all of that left over crap that is just inside your hole and along the walls of your asshole just stays there, YUCK!! a quick douche takes care off all of that access stuff...and believe me u guys, there is a lot of access crap left in your ass after u go to the washroom, i think all of u will be very surprised..douching ones ass is respectful to not only yourself but your partner, and it is just so very sanitary, how can anyone not douche...?