Hi! I'm new to all of this, but I am in desperate need of advice. My husband has a rather large member, and he is dying to have anal sex. We have tried on several occasions, but he can only seem to get the head if his member inside me, I have to make him stop because it hurts so badly. I want to please him, but is it supposed to hurt me THAT bad? And does anyone have any suggeasions on what we could do differently other that using lube? Thanks!