Anal Help

[shortguy_big]

Hi guys (and girls) just found a new guy I like as a bit of fun on the side, anyway, we had our first anal meet last week and although good it wasnt easy and really hurt, plus I bled a bit, no fault of his

He was caring and knew my limits but with a base girth of 7.5" (yes really, no exaggeration) I'm struggling, his length is fine, an above average 6.5" and I've taken much longer but this is a new challenge, I'm not sure what position I should be in to help me open up or whatever, any advice?

 

[WilliamG]

Wow! Maybe some home alone practice with a few toys? Or have him use a warm up toy or two to get you ready. Also as I always say... Find your medium of choice that helps you relax (weed, wine, cocktails...). Good for you to have this beast to enjoy!

 

[shortguy_big]

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Wow! Maybe some home alone practice with a few toys? Or have him use a warm up toy or two to get you ready. Also as I always say... Find your medium of choice that helps you relax (weed, wine, cocktails...). Good for you to have this beast to enjoy

Thanks William, you're completely right, it was me being naïve and having not met him since last year forgot what I was dealing with!
Started to open myself up, with plenty of lube, I'm not a poppers weed or alcohol kind of guy. Did manage all five digits and a stretch before putting in an 8" girth toy uncomfortably but that has give and he doesn't so I'll update when we meet again, which should be relatively soon