Anal newbie- best position ?

[deine_huendin]

There are many threads on this topic.....with man good opinions and thoughts.

Try using different butt plugs and dildos in your ass now, "training" your ass and letting it get used to being penetrated. Start small and slowly go bigger. Over time, your ass will get used to it and that initial penetration becomes less and less painful.

When you start your love making take your time and try to relax. Lots of foreplay, so you're good and turned on...let him gently finger your hole or rim you....get that ass nice and relaxed. Use lots of lube---no matter the position---and let him slowly ease into you. If you have a type of "injector" try to insert some lube into your ass. Relax and breath easy.....

Use whatever position feels best and most comfortable for you....on top, doggie, on your back or on your stomach, with one leg up.......use the one that allows you to be relaxed......if you are relaxed, that's "half the battle".....And yes, a top lover who is considerate and knows you are a "newbie" is important, knowing he will take his time and let you dictate how fast and how deep he goes with his initial penetration and subsequent thrusting...

Once in, have him pause for a moment or two, and let your ass get used to his size inside of you.......try to stay relaxed and keep breathing......when the initial discomfort subsides, you can begin moving....both of you, until you can move together, hopefully in unison, with both of you enjoying the physical and emotional pleasure of anal love-making....

The joy and pleasure of being penetrated is wonderful, and so worth the initial fear and uncertainty......and the orgasms you will feel and experience as a bottom.......OMG.....like no other orgasm....simply the best....

 

[deine_huendin]

There are many threads on this topic.....with man good opinions and thoughts.

Try using different butt plugs and dildos in your ass now, "training" your ass and letting it get used to being penetrated. Start small and slowly go bigger. Over time, your ass will get used to it and that initial penetration becomes less and less painful.

When you start your love making take your time and try to relax. Lots of foreplay, so you're good and turned on...let him gently finger your hole or rim you....get that ass nice and relaxed. Use lots of lube---no matter the position---and let him slowly ease into you. If you have a type of "injector" try to insert some lube into your ass. Relax and breath easy.....

Use whatever position feels best and most comfortable for you....on top, doggie, on your back or on your stomach, with one leg up.......use the one that allows you to be relaxed......if you are relaxed, that's "half the battle".....And yes, a top lover who is considerate and knows you are a "newbie" is important, knowing he will take his time and let you dictate how fast and how deep he goes with his initial penetration and subsequent thrusting...

Once in, have him pause for a moment or two, and let your ass get used to his size inside of you.......try to stay relaxed and keep breathing......when the initial discomfort subsides, you can begin moving....both of you, until you can move together, hopefully in unison, with both of you enjoying the physical and emotional pleasure of anal love-making....

The joy and pleasure of being penetrated is wonderful, and so worth the initial fear and uncertainty......and the orgasms you will feel and experience as a bottom.......OMG.....like no other orgasm....simply the best....

 

[deine_huendin]

great- but i dont like tp play with cold and lifeless toys to get opend. i want to stay tight, virgin and innocent for my first top ...

 

[BVERSE7]

Laying on your side with him entering you from behind is always the easiest way to start. I don’t know why but it just works. Then as you get comfortable and he starts fucking you deep, you can arch your back, he can wrap an arm around your neck and roll you onto your stomach. Then he can fuck your brains out and be in total control of you.
PS- this is me.

 

[insert_8]

great- but i dont like tp play with cold and lifeless toys to get opend. i want to stay tight, virgin and innocent for my first top ...

I understand, and that's what I did. Perhaps my first time hurt a little more; and perhaps not. Over the years before I gave up my ass cherry, I tried toys a few times. They were NOT natural, they always hurt; and they never satisfied me. The guy who opened up my ass knew what he was doing, and prepared me well . . . and it still hurt. But the discomfort was a significant part of the overall experience, and being fucked by a real live penis was different than being fucked by a piece of plastic.

 

[Peter4572]

Assume this position: Lay down on the side, and bring your knees to your chest.
This leaves the field open for action: To shove his cock, in your hole from underneath
with ease and pleasure!. I did it. And it's been done to me as well. It always works!

 

[chrisrobin]

I understand, and that's what I did. Perhaps my first time hurt a little more; and perhaps not. Over the years before I gave up my ass cherry, I tried toys a few times. They were NOT natural, they always hurt; and they never satisfied me. The guy who opened up my ass knew what he was doing, and prepared me well . . . and it still hurt. But the discomfort was a significant part of the overall experience, and being fucked by a real live penis was different than being fucked by a piece of plastic.

I was very young and hadn't done it till this guy did me, very slowly and very sensitively.a bbc as well, and after that I had no problems, even toys felt good when I wanted a buzz ass.

 

[deine_huendin]

Laying on your side with him entering you from behind is always the easiest way to start. I don’t know why but it just works. Then as you get comfortable and he starts fucking you deep, you can arch your back, he can wrap an arm around your neck and roll you onto your stomach. Then he can fuck your brains out and be in total control of you.
PS- this is me.

great- i think i should try that- sounds relaxing for the bottom, but the top alwas got the control- control of shoving in carfefully control of going slow and later deep and fast- only HIS desicion

 

[deine_huendin]

I understand, and that's what I did. Perhaps my first time hurt a little more; and perhaps not. Over the years before I gave up my ass cherry, I tried toys a few times. They were NOT natural, they always hurt; and they never satisfied me. The guy who opened up my ass knew what he was doing, and prepared me well . . . and it still hurt. But the discomfort was a significant part of the overall experience, and being fucked by a real live penis was different than being fucked by a piece of plastic.

i under stand you very well- an maybe the pain is just part of it- a "natural" part of beeing a bottom ?!

 

[deine_huendin]

I was very young and hadn't done it till this guy did me, very slowly and very sensitively.a bbc as well, and after that I had no problems, even toys felt good when I wanted a buzz ass.

you where opend the firt time by a bbc ? ounds great- but sorry- i cant believe that...

 

[chrisrobin]

you where opend the firt time by a bbc ? ounds great- but sorry- i cant believe that...

He was in the UDAF, African American and considerably bigger than me. He didn't fuck me till our third meeting (first time was a wank in a public toilet, second time in the back of his car and finally in a mates bedroom) and he took his time, a few weeks later he introduced me to another bbc who was bigger so having had a good time on my mates I let his bigger longer thicker mate take me, and I took him as well. Its all a question of opening up the hole, teasing it wide and making sure you're relaxed..

 

[deine_huendin]

He was in the UDAF, African American and considerably bigger than me. He didn't fuck me till our third meeting (first time was a wank in a public toilet, second time in the back of his car and finally in a mates bedroom) and he took his time, a few weeks later he introduced me to another bbc who was bigger so having had a good time on my mates I let his bigger longer thicker mate take me, and I took him as well. Its all a question of opening up the hole, teasing it wide and making sure you're relaxed..

all a question of taking time, trusting, betting used with the idea of anal intercourse- thats right. but you are lucky meeting mr. right who knows to open a virgin tight hole...

 

[chrisrobin]

all a question of taking time, trusting, betting used with the idea of anal intercourse- thats right. but you are lucky meeting mr. right who knows to open a virgin tight hole...

I was young sweet and innocent and ready to please, he was eager to fuck but knew he would have to take it slow (actually it was me that took it slow) inch by inch - by the time he was tight inside me the first time yep it did hurt a bit but he was so sexed up he delivered his money shot, then rested, relaxed and subsided but remained mounted, so, 10 minutes or so later he hardened off for a real fuck and wow, it was amazing and two good loads of cum!

 

[deine_huendin]

I was young sweet and innocent and ready to please, he was eager to fuck but knew he would have to take it slow (actually it was me that took it slow) inch by inch - by the time he was tight inside me the first time yep it did hurt a bit but he was so sexed up he delivered his money shot, then rested, relaxed and subsided but remained mounted, so, 10 minutes or so later he hardened off for a real fuck and wow, it was amazing and two good loads of cum!

wow - nice to hear - i think i am also "ready"- but it is hard to find the right alpha...

 

[chrisrobin]

wow - nice to hear - i think i am also "ready"- but it is hard to find the right alpha...

keep looking and you'll find a cock to fit your asshole, once its filled with man meat you'll always enjoy that sensation when you experiment with other positons. Sex is more than coupling in the missionary position!

 

[deine_huendin]

keep looking and you'll find a cock to fit your asshole, once its filled with man meat you'll always enjoy that sensation when you experiment with other positons. Sex is more than coupling in the missionary position!

yes a friend said that that one WILL become addicted to a big one after the first smooth fuck.
do you think craigslist is a good idea for searching ?

 

[chrisrobin]

yes a friend said that that one WILL become addicted to a big one after the first smooth fuck.
do you think craigslist is a good idea for searching ?

never used it but on line stuff is, to me always suspect. You must have a few mates who'd love to shag you though, go for someone you know who wont fuck you rough (getting your asshole torn is always possible even when you are experienced). , and if you use toys for anal insertion always make sure they are warm (though an ice cold cucumber does wonders) and pliable

 

[insert_8]

do you think craigslist is a good idea for searching ?

I hook up through Craigslist (including the guy who took my ass cherry). Yeah, a LOT of responses are crap but with a little intelligence you can weed them out quickly. On average, I probably meet one guy out of 20 or 30 responses - and finding the guy to pop my cherry took many months. Maybe almost a year, and perhaps 100 responses.

 

[insert_8]

i under stand you very well- an maybe the pain is just part of it- a "natural" part of beeing a bottom ?!

Yes, especially that short stab of discomfort when he breaks through your sphincter. That tells me I have been "taken", and will be used for another man's sexual pleasure. My sphincter does not want to get popped, and I am always a little anxious and nervous when I know that it WILL get popped and I will probably embarrass myself with a definite "Ouch!" or a very audible moan of hurt when it happens. But some combination of my willing the muscle ring to open; and his cock head pressuring it to yield, means that it will happen. That's like a switch getting flipped - even though it may still hurt, I change from thinking about what is going to be done to me, to thinking about the pleasure he is experiencing and how I can enhance it.

 

[deine_huendin]

Yes, especially that short stab of discomfort when he breaks through your sphincter. That tells me I have been "taken", and will be used for another man's sexual pleasure. My sphincter does not want to get popped, and I am always a little anxious and nervous when I know that it WILL get popped and I will probably embarrass myself with a definite "Ouch!" or a very audible moan of hurt when it happens. But some combination of my willing the muscle ring to open; and his cock head pressuring it to yield, means that it will happen. That's like a switch getting flipped - even though it may still hurt, I change from thinking about what is going to be done to me, to thinking about the pleasure he is experiencing and how I can enhance it.

wow !
you know exactly what i am dreaming about ;-)
the feeling of have beein taken, used, penetrated, impaled...