Anal newbie- best position ?

[MaysGM]

Relax AS much als you can!

This was my choice for my first time anal with the right leg pulled up.
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Did you let him cum in that ass

 

[deine_huendin]

to relax is not easy when you are still afraid to get teared apart..

 

[BBB2.5]

to relax is not easy when you are still afraid to get teared apart..

It can be scary, but as long as your having fun and your both into each other sexually. This should help you, foreplay foreplay foreplay. That will help loosen you up too. Just have fun

 

[insert_8]

to relax is not easy when you are still afraid to get teared apart..

I was anxious and a little scared and I knew there would be some pain. All of that actually became part of the first-time experience. I found a top guy who had devirginized several guys, and understood both the mental and physical experience I was going through. He took plenty of time, and skillfully applied the foreplay techniques. I'm convinced it didn't hurt more than was absolutely necessary.

 

[deine_huendin]

I was anxious and a little scared and I knew there would be some pain. All of that actually became part of the first-time experience. I found a top guy who had devirginized several guys, and understood both the mental and physical experience I was going through. He took plenty of time, and skillfully applied the foreplay techniques. I'm convinced it didn't hurt more than was absolutely necessary.

lucky guy- so you met "mister right" ;-) ?

 

[deine_huendin]

loosen up sounds good- but too loose, too roomy, too vast
wont be interested for the top ;-) ?

 

[insert_8]

lucky guy- so you met "mister right" ;-) ?

I found a guy who enjoyed administering the first fuck to a virgin hole, and watching the guy's reactions. He fucked my body while engaging my mind, and keeping the emotions uninvolved.

 

[insert_8]

loosen up sounds good- but too loose, too roomy, too vast
wont be interested for the top ;-) ?

I can't imagine a virgin who could get too loose, without some intervention by artificial chemicals. I think the guy who popped my ass cherry made sure my very first "Ouch!" moment was memorable and significant for me, and pleasurable for him.

 

[deine_huendin]

I can't imagine a virgin who could get too loose, without some intervention by artificial chemicals. I think the guy who popped my ass cherry made sure my very first "Ouch!" moment was memorable and significant for me, and pleasurable for him.

as you said: pleassuable for HIM - that's it

 

[insert_8]

as you said: pleassuable for HIM - that's it

Yes, giving HIM pleasure is satisfying. But the whole experience was significant and satisfying to me - even though I definitely vocalized the "OUCH!" of getting popped for the very first time (and would have writhed if he hadn't pinned my body under his to prevent it), and even though being split to full-depth brought tears to my eyes and some very un-manly blubbering.

I think he got satisfaction from seeing my discomfort as he did what had to be done. When I first realized that, I was a little upset that my pain was his pleasure. Then I realized that I had given him that pleasure, and that he had, in fact, kept things on the hurts-so-good side of the line without straying over into hurts-too-much.

 

[Curiousguyonthedl]

I found a guy who enjoyed administering the first fuck to a virgin hole, and watching the guy's reactions. He fucked my body while engaging my mind, and keeping the emotions uninvolved.

I would like to find a guy to do that to my ass

 

[deine_huendin]

Yes, giving HIM pleasure is satisfying. But the whole experience was significant and satisfying to me - even though I definitely vocalized the "OUCH!" of getting popped for the very first time (and would have writhed if he hadn't pinned my body under his to prevent it), and even though being split to full-depth brought tears to my eyes and some very un-manly blubbering.

I think he got satisfaction from seeing my discomfort as he did what had to be done. When I first realized that, I was a little upset that my pain was his pleasure. Then I realized that I had given him that pleasure, and that he had, in fact, kept things on the hurts-so-good side of the line without straying over into hurts-too-much.

hmmm. i the it is not easy to accept - and for me...
it took me a while to get this insight:
By now I'm almost sure that the ouch, the pain and discomfort is a very important part of that thing....