anal orgasm question

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  1. curiouslad

    curiouslad New Member

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    hi there. im new here and i have a question for all of you who are familiar with male anal orgasms.

    ive never had sex with a man, and im pretty much a straight guy with some.. fetishes.. i like cocks and i like stuff in my ass, but thats about it. as related, i have a dildo i play with quite often. ive been trying and trying to achieve and orgasm with this but to no success.

    last night i came closer than ever. its very hard to describe the sensation i experienced, but ill try. the whole process is quite frankly rather strenous. i was performing a rather deep penetration, because it seemed like my body responded best to that. my penis was leaking more and more "precum", and it felt better and better.. like i was about to cum, but i never got there. i dont usually produce alot of precum, but this was just insane. it surprised myself bigtime. i reached a point where my dick was leaking so much precum it looked like i was urinating, and for a moment i thought i was.

    it all felt really good but there was no real orgasm.

    now my question is.. what happened? and how can i achieve an orgasm, if at all?
     
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    that dildo was hitting your male GSpot (the prostrate) do it with a guy and you will have an orgasm and NEVER go back to a dildo.
     
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    hey there

    you were banging on your prostate gland (google it) don't google prostrate or you will be flat on your back ;)

    with a bit of practice you might be able to bring yourself off but it is way better with a throbbing dick in there !!
     
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    it's not a G-spot.
     
  5. curiouslad

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    not sure how i would go about getting a guy to assfuck me, though i really would like that
     
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    I like to be anally penetrated (fingers, tongues, toys, cocks), but I haven't has a spontaneous orgasm from just anal. I know a few guys I have fucked cum from me fucking their asses (watching the cum shoot out of their cocks is evidence enough), but unless I am stroking my cock, I don't even get close. It feels great, but it just doesn't trigger orgasm.
     
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    Sounds to me like you were having fun. ;)

    However, in my experience, I've found that some guys can and do achieve ejaculation/orgasms from anal stimulation. Some guys achieve high levels of stimulation and really start to pump out the precum, but don't actually have 'orgasm/ejaculation'. Some guys don't really seem to feel much stimulation at all - or don't enjoy the sensation.

    To push the point further, some guys get rock hard erections when they are anally stimulated/penetrated (by whatever means). Some guys lose their erections when they are penetrated, but still enjoy the sensation of it just as much.

    For example, I always lose my erection when I get fucked, but I also can and do have anal-induced orgasm-ejaculations with a half-hard floppy dick.

    In other words, there are no hard and fast rules here. Different bodies react in different ways to different things. Just experiment with what you like and don't get too wrapped up in trying to achieve something that might not be there. Just enjoy what you do.
     
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    thanks for the answer Lucky Luke. and, yeah, i guess im one of those who get rock hard :p

    when i insert a dildo i go from flacid to hard in just few seconds..

    and as i said i was leaking alot of precum and enjoyed it all but i basically called it quits cause the whole thing was strenous as i said.. i was working it for a good 10-15 minutes which more or less killed my arm(s)

    i also found that the best position for me to be in is sitting crouching.. if i lay down i get strange air movements down there lol.. and 'sitting' in that positions fucks with my knees aswell

    so yeah! alot of crap! lol im gonna keep trying tho..
     
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    I love having my ass played with but don't think I have ever had an anal orgasm
     
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    I don't think it's real.
     
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    It sounds like what you were doing worked out pretty good curiouslad. I've never had THAT much precum. Almost like an orgasm or analgasm.

    I like having something in my ass, but like jdoe, I don't think I could ever cum without stroking myself. I have seen guys fucked to a handsfree orgasm in porn, but wouldn't it be a lot more common in porn if it was common? I don't think most guys can do it.

    Maybe if you didn't touch yourself for a month beforehand. A guy I used to work with told me that he went to the doctor with prostatic congestion and the doc put a couple fingers in his bum and all the fluid gushed out. He didn't describe it as an orgasm though. :confused13:
     
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    docilej.. a pretty big dildo. i guess 8" inches
     
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    an anal orgasm, to what I know, does not necessarily need to have a regular orgasm and ejaculation. anal orgasims can be more of a whole body event that, as the OP stated, are hard to describe.
    and as for the copious precum, I have found that it comes from the intense stimulation of not only your prostate, but also your cowpers gland. there is a lot of individuality in things like this....just as some guys get instant hard from anal penetration and some guys go half hard. there's biological differences in us all just as there are mental differences of what does it for them.
    my advice...for what its worth..is to enjoy. as long as you are safe, enjoy and explore. i know some guys go big time for width, where for others length and depth does it for them. how can you know unles you explore. but again...safely and sanely
     
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    There are orgasms. And there are orgasms, and there are orgasms.

    Sure, men and women both can cum in their ass from stimulation. Just like women can experience a variety of orgasms from clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation (not even including the nipples or in rare cases stimulation of other parts of the body like necks), men can experience orgasms, both penile and anal -- with or without penis ejaculation.

    Prostate stimulation works, and is great, but I can anally cum without ever getting to the prostate. I do suspect the prostate of being one of the primary reasons why men find it easier sometimes to enjoy anal stimulation than some women (not all, oh no, not all).

    There is a lot of information on non-ejaculatory orgasms, tantric stimulation, etc. Some of it is hooey, and some of it is real. I studied and practiced tantric and kundalini sexual techniques assiduously for years when I was younger, and yeah it can make a real difference.

    But you don't have to get into any of that to enjoy anal orgasms. Just relax, and as Digital Underground said, "do what'cha like".
     
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