anal orgasm: questions and comments.

[theallstar]

first a disclaimer: i have looked around "sex with..." via different organization methods and i couldn't find a thread about this. I did get interested in this topic from a bottom q&a and i kinda want to know a few more things. i also am interested in responses from women on the topic.
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I consider myself straight. i have been lurking around lpsg for a bit now and got curious about men having anal only orgasms when someone asked about bottoms in gay porn always being limp.
I have performed anal sex on a number of women and even taken the virginity of women anal first and then vaginally, this isn't to brag. i mean to say that i am familiar with a few of the rules (1. go slow, 2. communicate, 3. lube, Lube LUBE!)
what i am more interested in how it feels. what's it like for a first time receiver, if the orgasms feel different for a woman, condoms are a must for casual play but does it feel better getting it from a naked dick?
i have to say that even though i identify as straight, i am starting to feel like i would want to see what it's like for a muscular guy with a long thick dick work into me and then fill me up.
essentially, i am interested in experiences that people have had that are more descriptive than "i love bottoming"

 

[438818]

Use fingers and toys first. Use condoms, do not bareback, and realize that if you want sex with men you are not straight.

 

[sykray]

Without encouraging or disencouraging any moves to get fucked by a guy, muscular, hung or otherwise, why don't you simply try a dildo or vibrator?

I would also assume that you have already tried one or two of your own fingers up there stroking your prostate. Maybe you've done this whilst masturbating but just try it without touching your dick - once you are hard already.

If you haven't then experiment.

I doubt that verbal descriptions are really adequate for describing sensations. We don't know whether different men experience orgasm in the same way. We know that orgasms vary from time to time in our own experience but we might not be able to describe precisely what the differences are. (Longer, stronger, more intense, less intense, more like a release, more like reaching the highest peak, more narrowly focused, more generalised throughout the body, etc. None of these give a real indication of how things feel.)

 

[theallstar]

i knew this was going to happen: i don't consider a curiosity about achieving orgasm anally the same as being a full blown homosexual. i feel that homosexuality is it's own unique lifestyle that deserves to be respected independently of the stereotypes that the mainstream has for it.
gays deserve to get married and have long term committed relationships with one another. i would never marry or have a relationship with a man.
some gay men hate taking it up the ass. i'm 26 and live in the pacific northwest, if i wanted gay sex i could go to seattle or portland easily.

if you really must know, i actually have an anal sex fetishism and i would find it extremely hot to fuck a woman up the ass in front of her husband. i have always topped and in my fantasies i'm always a top in my scenarios. i'm just curious about penis-free orgasms and i think a toy might hurt or be weird.
in terms of bisexuality- again, at most i am curious. i would never label myself as bisexual because i don't think i participate in that sort of lifestyle.

 

[cyberczar]

Hate to break it to you, but as the other poster said if you desire to have sex with men, or to be fucked by a man, then you are not straight.

Not saying you're gay either.

Ever hear of being bisexual? Trysexual? Omnisexual? Pansexual?

We are complex animals, and it's unfair to any of us to use such black and white stereotypes.

But sorry dude, I've never met a straight man - fetish or no fetish - that wants a dick anywhere near his ass.

You, my friend, are (at the very least) bisexual.

 

[theallstar]

ok, ok, ok.
i guess i was kind of asking for the conversation to go off topic. but let me put it to everyone simply: i self identify as a curious hetero sexual. i'm open minded enough to admit that i don't know all about myself just yet. what if i try and have sex with a dude and i don't like it? would i still be bi?
i think it's very rude of people, especially in a forum like this, to do all the labeling for me. to be quite honest, i asked a question out actual self reflection and i think it's my own fault for putting myself out here.

i am not attracted to men in a romantic or love interest sort of way. i experimented with fingers and some toys when i was a teen and didn't like the result. i read some posts that bottoms have posted saying how amazing it is to get butt fucked and i am secure enough in who i am to question what it could be like.

 

[jjsjr]

Why not get yourself a dildo?
or get a strap-on for your lady friends?!

You can experience anal sex in its truest form!!!

 

[MH07]

first a disclaimer: i have looked around "sex with..." via different organization methods and i couldn't find a thread about this. I did get interested in this topic from a bottom q&a and i kinda want to know a few more things. i also am interested in responses from women on the topic.
****
I consider myself straight. i have been lurking around lpsg for a bit now and got curious about men having anal only orgasms when someone asked about bottoms in gay porn always being limp.
I have performed anal sex on a number of women and even taken the virginity of women anal first and then vaginally, this isn't to brag. i mean to say that i am familiar with a few of the rules (1. go slow, 2. communicate, 3. lube, Lube LUBE!)
what i am more interested in how it feels. what's it like for a first time receiver, if the orgasms feel different for a woman, condoms are a must for casual play but does it feel better getting it from a naked dick?
i have to say that even though i identify as straight, i am starting to feel like i would want to see what it's like for a muscular guy with a long thick dick work into me and then fill me up.
essentially, i am interested in experiences that people have had that are more descriptive than "i love bottoming"

He didn't ask whether he was gay or straight. He merely asked what it felt like, and for examples.

For me, it's always been a feeling of intense fullness (not sure how to describe it). I've never orgasmed that way (without penile stimulation). It is pleasurable for me, but more in the line of the aforementioned fullness, plus the pleasure of being topped by another man (preferably a strong one). I'm usually the top, so it's hard for me to say.

I will tell you this, though: try to describe your own sensations at orgasm, without using "mind-blowing", "intense", etc. It's hard to do.

 

[streetdoc]

It is a very difficult sensation to describe as previously noted. I first experienced it with a partner who was 9x6. For me it all plays in together. The strong physical/emotional attration to the the guy. The size of his dick. The amount, type and intensity of foreplay. Then there's the mental aspect of anticipating being penetrated by another man. The actual stretching to accomodate him. The mentioned feeling of fullness. Two other things that seem to be factors for me are if he's cut with a very prominent corona and the position which we have sex. The actual sensation itsself begins for me I think when the ridge of his corona is moving back and forth over my prostate. It also only happens when he's pumping really fast. There's another sensation I begin to feel at that point. It's almost like his big cock is creating a little bit of a suction inside me. Then something odd (at least for me) happens, and this is the only time it ever happens. I suddenly begin self lubricating. I haven't figured out yet what it is or why it happens. But it always happens only in this scenario. I get wetter and slipperier than any amount or type of lube can make me. Then I start having little waves of spasms (I'm assuming these are coming from the prostate stimulation) which intensify with every thrust. Then suddenly I start having just big freakin waves of intense spasm in the muscles of my pelvic floor and in my lower abdominal muscles and the urge to push, that we all normally have when doing number two, is triggered. When that happens, it's all over with. I am completely out of control and I'm feeling this bodywide sensation that I can't seem to find words for, but it's the most intense thing I've ever felt. I find it actually takes my breath away and the waves of pleasure are so intense I feel like I'm close to passing out. This can last the first time as long as he continues that hammering rhythm. This can happen over and over depending on the ebb and flow of his rhythm, but each one after the first is a little less intense. If you have any medical training or want to look it up, the one thing I would say is that this produces (at least in me) an intense vagolytic response, which can be dangerous to some people. Ok. That's the best I can do to describe what I feel when this happens. Hope it was helpfull to you.

 

[theallstar]

this is a long one, sorry:
"Why not get yourself a dildo?
or get a strap-on for your lady friends?!

You can experience anal sex in its truest form!!! "
because i already mentioned i tried toys and i wasn't impressed. as a matter of fact i have spoke to some women who say that even though they have had, and enjoyed, anal sex from me that they don't toy around back their themselves. and it seems from
"It is pleasurable for me, but more in the line of the aforementioned fullness, plus the pleasure of being topped by another man (preferably a strong one)."
(thank you for being reasonable MH07)
that there is a distinct difference between toys and people.

and to streetdoc: thank you so much. that was very informative. i have experieced women who lube up themselves, back there, and find it interesting that men do too. though it does make sense.

" try to describe your own sensations at orgasm, without using "mind-blowing", "intense", etc. It's hard to do. "
when i masturbate i have gotten into the habit of slowly stroking myself while finding the perfect porno video. the way a woman's yes look into the camera or the way her toes curl when she's being double penetrated. as i build towards orgasm, if i take a long enough time, my urethra has a pleasant warm sensation and the muscles in my face and neck tighten. if she's moaning just right, i can hit my chin.
if it's a quicky, my cum just spills.
sex on the other hand, if she's looking at me or saying the right thing (lately it's been a lot of "i love yous" from people that i don't really love, i'm into the slave master thing) then i actually holler as the muscles in my neck, back chest and face tighten and i release.
if it's quicky with a woman then it's usually a lot weaker, and i feel guilty because most women i know don't cum during quikies.

 

[Shhh316]

Hate to break it to you, but as the other poster said if you desire to have sex with men, or to be fucked by a man, then you are not straight.

Not saying you're gay either.

Ever hear of being bisexual? Trysexual? Omnisexual? Pansexual?

We are complex animals, and it's unfair to any of us to use such black and white stereotypes.

But sorry dude, I've never met a straight man - fetish or no fetish - that wants a dick anywhere near his ass.

You, my friend, are (at the very least) bisexual.

I highly disagree.

Men can have fantasies about cocks and not feel any romance/sensuality or attachment to another man. It's simply lust which will go away once a man blows his load. I've looked at men and don't find any of them the least bit attractive but when I look at the animalistic nature of having sex...it turns me on...gay/bi/straight or otherwise. We're sexual beings, why hide that?

If women get together and "experiment" do we think they're lesbians once they start dating a man? No. It was experimentation and men shouldn't be discarded from that line of thought.

Try anything once to see where you stand. Homosexuality is not something you choose, it's something that you've always felt.

Experimentation between a man and another man is fine except in the eyes of todays society which would label them as gay. That's the biggest problem I find at the moment.