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I need some advice regarding anal penetration. Lately, when I am bottoming I seem to have problems with feces coming out on the top's penis and even while using toys myself. It doesn't happen right away, it's usually after 20 minutes or so of anal penetration that it starts to happen. I can't/don't feel like I am about to do it, it just happens. The only time I do feel it coming is when I am riding on top. Any advice on why this is happening now after several years and also why can I feel it happening when I am riding only?

Also, an anal orgasm? I have read and heard stories of such thing but would love to know how to experience once with toys first. What happens during an anal orgasm? What does it feel like? What are the best positions to achieve one? Any other advice or tips would be appreciated.
 

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Do you practice cleaning procedures of any kind prior to anal penetration? The best advice I can give you without know the answer to the question I just asked is to get a good enema. Alter your diet prior to anal intercourse so that your excrement is dryer and more uniform as apposed to loose and sloppy. Enemas should be used until the water runs clear.
 

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Ok first off. . invest in a "shower shot system" it is a hose extension you can hook up to your shower head to give yourself an Enema, before sex. If you clean out very well before sex, it will be much more enjoyable. Secondly. . anal orgasms or internal orgasms come and go. a lot can depend on position. . or you. . or him. . it all just depends. Just focus on pleasing your dude. the best men you will get with will be focused on pleasing you, and that is what counts.

Mr. Slave.
 

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A dirty butt usually has to do with timing and diet. Don't bottom after meals or when you would normally go to the bathroom; those are times when your system is pushing stuff down the conveyor belt, as it were. And don't eat garbage food, either. It leads to a sloppy intestinal system. You might want to bulk up on the greens and use this as a convenient excuse to cut out pre-processed foods.

I have no idea how you can tell it's happening when you're on top only. If you know poop happens after about 20 minutes, you might want to have yourself in that position at that point so you can feel if it's going to show up, as it were.

As for anal orgasms, they seem to be easier for some people than others. Some people on these forums report good luck with toys like the Aneros. Others have better luck with a partner. I think that one's general level of horniness and attraction to one's partner are key ingredients. It seems to be easier for people who are really in love and not inhibited around their partners.

Good luck!
 
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I don't think there's a fool proof way of being completely clean unless you been in the hospital, been "NPO" for a while followed by a tall, ice cold bottle of magnesium citrate..

My best advice, if it is possible is to take a good dump before sex then use an enema followed by 3 or 4 clear water rinses.

This works really good for me.
 
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Don't eat 24 to 18 hrs prior to your hook up with the top. NO Processed foods/ or fast foods either. Clean yourself out very well a few hours prior to your hook up. Make sure that you're make at least a number of clean, clear of debris douches. I agree with Dong-in-khakies. Use very warm water, not luke warm water. Not so hot you can't stand it, but hot enough. Not boiling.
 

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I personally find the most of the prep stages excessive. No matter what you do the stuff is made to move down that path and unless you've taken anything orally to really clean out your insides, it will happen with time. For you it might be 20 minutes before things get moved down to your rectum. It might be longer for others.

If you really want to impress someone with a long penis (these tend to go deep and touch something) and want to bottom for a very long period of time, then do an enema. I wouldn't turn it into a habit as it's not supposed to be good for you.

The truth of the matter is, you don't want to have to do all this prep work every time you want to bottom. If you have healthy bowels, you should be able to tell if it'll be a mess or not. This is sex. It's supposed to be fun and not so much work. It's supposed to happen when you want it. Also, your partner knows where he's sticking it into. It's best to have healthy movements before the intercourse and make sure you don't have the urge. Lube also helps things not get stuck. Don't obsess over it and relax. If you're in a spontaneous position and think it'll be a mess, just say no and do other things. It's much better than taking 15 minutes to clean yourself and coming back to it.
 
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Find your prostate.
It's your best friend.

What jjsjr said! The prostate is a key to hands free anal orgasms (really prostate orgasms).

To cum hands free when getting fucked, the top has to be hitting your prostate the right way. Communication is important to let your top know what really feels good.

I have an Aneros prostate massager and have learned to have mind blowing full body orgasms with it. But that is a whole other topic, and an Aneros is not necessarily cheap. Your fingers or your top's fingers are no-cost tools to help you find your prostate.
 

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Full time Special Agent Bottom here...

1, Douche & run up the stairs a few times, jiggle the water around & go empty... Don't douche too often thou as it flushes away healthy culture from your poo factory. Start taking a pro biotic yoghurt drink too...

2, Had a few anal orgasms, the last of which resulted in a loss of movement to all my limbs, shortness of breath & all my internal organs exploding(for about 3-4 minutes)
 

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Interesting thoughts on douching here. Here are my thoughts about being clean before anal FWIW. These are my opinions of course, based on my experience.

Diet. The most important thing of all. You don't have to starve yourself either. I eat a healthy diet full of lots of veg. This makes me incredibly regular in the mornings, like clockwork. So I know shouldn't fuck in the morning before 11 or so. All I need at this point is a light douche with a small enema bulb to rinse our my rectum (not a heavy douche with lots of water that gets into my colon). I can be prepped in a very quick period of time, usually 10-15 minutes, and have a clean fuck. If I eat junk food or something that throws off my regularity, all bets are off. If I really want to fuck, I'll need to do a deep cleaning where I use an attachment with a shower hose. This gets water into the sigmoid colon and stimulates the digestive contraction process The problem with this is that it's VERY time consuming. Not to be graphic, but if you're bound up, this can take up to 2 hours to be in the clear for fucking. By that time, you can be 'dried out' as well. It's just not worth it to me. It kills spontaneity for one thing!

I'm also worried about the advice for hot water here. I wouldn't use any water higher than body temperature. There is a risk of using an attachment on a hose that the temperature of the water may get too hot before you realise it. There are limited nerve endings in the rectum and colon. You will be burnt before you know it. If I'm douching this way, I err on the side of using cool water to be cautious. If I'm using an enema bulb, it's controlled, so I will use closer to body temperature.

Some guys don't mind a dirty fuck, or they don't want to wait for you to prep. This is always an option as well if both parties don't mind. I'd be cautious about this as well because any debris in your rectum and cause irritation from being compacted. It goes back to diet again. If you've eaten something rougher like nuts or even some fibrous veg, think of it like sandpaper. Not good.
 
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There are two key things to remember/understand. Number one, the penis going in and out of your anus is similar to a plunge as air is pushed in and out. Unfortunately, sometimes this will result in movement in your bowel, specifically your lower colon. Secondly, when you have an anal/rectal orgasm your rectum will quiver/spasm and you may get the urge to reverse kegel (bear down) as the orgasm sweeps over you. This pressure might also cause movement in the colon. Using enemas, etc. will certainly alleviate some of the problem, but at times it is inevitable.
 

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I've played with myself anally, but never had some one insert anything into my anus. And I agree with hvdude. My problem is when a woman asks to insert her finger in my anus she fails to take into account her long finger nails and sometimes they hurt, and who know what finds it's way under those nails.
 

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I've played with myself anally, but never had some one insert anything into my anus. And I agree with hvdude. My problem is when a woman asks to insert her finger in my anus she fails to take into account her long finger nails and sometimes they hurt, and who know what finds it's way under those nails.

Be careful! The last thing you want is for those "long nails" to perforate (tear) the inside of your rectum. You can have her put a bandaid over her nail or a "finger condom" to protect yourself from any injury. Having said that, rubbing your anus is nice, but penetrating past the sphincter into the rectum and massaging/rubbing the prostate is where the real pleasure's at. Take it slow and you'll find that with prostate stimulation your orgasm and ejaculation will be explosive!
 
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