I find this kind of trivial. I mean, if you don't want to clean then don't have sex (or have sex not knowing what's inside). But it annoys me. It is such an effort to clean my arse out before sex. It takes such a long time and is quite exhausting. By the time I'm finished, I'm over it and don't want to root anymore. But I can't stand having sex and not knowing what's in there. For me, it needs to be squeaky clean. There has been times where it felt like nothing was in there, but there was poo high up and when I loosened up during sex, it became a bit messy. I need to ensure that the whole passage is clean as I can get it, or I can't relax and enjoy myself. But it is such an effort! Does anyone else get annoyed about pre-sex anal cleaning? Is it such an effort for anyone else? Or am I just over-reacting and need to just suck it up? Lol. Curious to know if anyone else has had experiences where their partners couldn't wait til you cleaned out/lost the romance by the time you'd finished cleaning out.