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Forgive me up if this Question has already been asked. I had a straight friend who is African American as I am( I mentioned our race to for sociological reasons). Anyway my friend lived with me for about two years and during that time he used to love to watch porn with me, and until then I never watched porn with another man before and watching the playboy channel became kind of a nightly ritual.He used to always talk about having anal sex with women, and he would go into graphic details about his anal sex conquest. At the same he seemed to like anal sex more than he did vaginal sex.

I even called him on it and shared with him that I never heard black men talk, or brag so much about having anal sex. He said where he is from in the Midwest it is very common for men to talk about having anal sex with women. For the record, I believe that he is 100 percent straight or maybe 90% at the least lol. My question is it common for straight men in general talk about having anal sex with women and to prefer having anal sex with women more than vaginal sex?
 

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Depends on the man.
My best bro is definitely an ass man. He'd rather fuck a woman in the ass than in her pussy. He says he starts out fucking in the pussy but moves quickly to her ass.
I'm the complete opposite. I've never fucked a woman in the ass and don't really have a desire to unless she ask for it.
 

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Forgive me up if this Question has already been asked. I had a straight friend who is African American as I am( I mentioned our race to for sociological reasons). Anyway my friend lived with me for about two years and during that time he used to love to watch porn with me, and until then I never watched porn with another man before and watching the playboy channel became kind of a nightly ritual.He used to always talk about having anal sex with women, and he would go into graphic details about his anal sex conquest. At the same he seemed to like anal sex more than he did vaginal sex.

I even called him on it and shared with him that I never heard black men talk, or brag so much about having anal sex. He said where he is from in the Midwest it is very common for men to talk about having anal sex with women. For the record, I believe that he is 100 percent straight or maybe 90% at the least lol. My question is it common for straight men in general talk about having anal sex with women and to prefer having anal sex with women more than vaginal sex?

We talk about sex in general, especially when we are drinking. Also about anal sex. Some friends (m/f) like anal sex, some dont.
Some love a asshole, some find it disgusting.

I like anal sex with a female more then vaginal. I love a asshole more than a vagina.
I think its more special and more intense and it is something you do with someone special.

grtz leo
 

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My question is it common for straight men in general talk about having anal sex with women and to prefer having anal sex with women more than vaginal sex?
I dont think there's a general answer here; I think it's going to vary by populace and locale. Anecdotally, Id venture more straight men talk about and prefer vaginal over anal sex, but I think oral sex factors into there as well.
Unfortunately a lot of us publicly skew towards a very rigid definition of acceptable heterosexuality, where anal sex comes under cultural scrutiny via hygienic concerns or fears of covert homosexuality, so it doesn't surprise me that it surprises you to hear him talk so openly about it, but regional populations are going to spawn different cultures so who's to say what takes where...i grew up in the Midwest, MI specifically, and have a favorable opinion of it, I've got cousins down South that dont.
 

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No I don't know anyone that does. Or At least no one talkes about it. I am also a black guy. Ive never done it with a woman mainly because I know the amount of preparation that girls in porn have too go through. And I think that's the only way I'd be comfortable doing it.
 

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Also a black man and no that isn't common. Or at least not as far as i can tell. What is common in the black community though (could just be for comedic purposes) is eating the booty like groceries. When it comes to that i think it might be much more common than talking about anal.

Even read comments from one guy who flat out said it was like a super power (can't even imagine what his costume would look like and don't wanna). That women love it so much and men not so much. That when a woman finds out they eat ass it's better than hearing about a guy with a large dick. He said that women will spread the message and before he knows it he has a veritable buffet of cracks to attack.

But. I got nothing just wanted to slide that in.

I kind of believe him. Don't know how much of a thing that really is but i would imagine it's like blowjobs for men during a time when they were off limits by most over religions. I'm guessing that finding someone willing to blow you when most other people didn't was like finding a unicorn in a haystack. Also guessing the same might be for eating ass. No matter the sexuality.
 

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We talk about sex in general, especially when we are drinking. Also about anal sex. Some friends (m/f) like anal sex, some dont.
Some love a asshole, some find it disgusting.

I like anal sex with a female more then vaginal. I love a asshole more than a vagina.
I think its more special and more intense and it is something you do with someone special.

grtz leo
Thanks for sharing your experiences and perspective it taught me a lot
 
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Depends on the man.
My best bro is definitely an ass man. He'd rather fuck a woman in the ass than in her pussy. He says he starts out fucking in the pussy but moves quickly to her ass.
I'm the complete opposite. I've never fucked a woman in the ass and don't really have a desire to unless she ask for it.

Thanks for your open and honest sharing
 
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Also a black man and no that isn't common. Or at least not as far as i can tell. What is common in the black community though (could just be for comedic purposes) is eating the booty like groceries. When it comes to that i think it might be much more common than talking about anal.

Even read comments from one guy who flat out said it was like a super power (can't even imagine what his costume would look like and don't wanna). That women love it so much and men not so much. That when a woman finds out they eat ass it's better than hearing about a guy with a large dick. He said that women will spread the message and before he knows it he has a veritable buffet of cracks to attack.

But. I got nothing just wanted to slide that in.

I kind of believe him. Don't know how much of a thing that really is but i would imagine it's like blowjobs for men during a time when they were off limits by most over religions. I'm guessing that finding someone willing to blow you when most other people didn't was like finding a unicorn in a haystack. Also guessing the same might be for eating ass. No matter the sexuality.

thanks for your response and I agree with you.
 
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What is common in the black community though (could just be for comedic purposes) is eating the booty like groceries. When it comes to that i think it might be much more common than talking about anal.
Gotta disagree with you on that one. I think for the most part it's said sarcastically because of Jhene Aiko. I personally wouldn't do it for the same reasons I haven't done anal. I feel like no matter how clean you are you can't get rid of the possible taste or that smell.
 
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This seems to have become more popular in the last 30 years. I’m speculating it comes from Euro porn but is now mainstream.

I’ve never done it, and have no interest in it. There’s poop in there somewhere. Blech...
 
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Gotta disagree with you on that one. I think for the most part it's said sarcastically because of Jhene Aiko. I personally wouldn't do it for the same reasons I haven't done anal. I feel like no matter how clean you are you can't get rid of the possible taste or that smell.

I hope you're right about it being said sarcastically. And thank you for mentioning taste. I didn't need to eat today. But yeah, same reason i've never done it and never will. Though it is funny, once someone tried making fun of me. Saying odds were good that while eating a woman out i had to have slipped up a couple times and ate ass. Nope. In that area i have exceptional aim. :p
 

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No I don't know anyone that does. Or At least no one talkes about it. I am also a black guy. Ive never done it with a woman mainly because I know the amount of preparation that girls in porn have too go through. And I think that's the only way I'd be comfortable doing it.
I love fucking a nice tight wet pussy. I've had some women who's pussy was so loose so I went for the tight asshole. It was so much better.

lol that’s funny
 

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Interesting comments. My wife (when really horny) loves anal sex. I love to give it. I also love to take it too. I think one of the stereotypes men have - especially white men - is promoted by the porn industry. Look how much porn there is out there of black men with huge cocks fucking a white girl in the ass. Makes for great video (I for one love the color contrast), but fake as hell in the real world.
 

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Way back when I had a group of guy friends and we’d talk about sex, anal never really came up in conversation. That was back around @Herodotus ‘s 30 year mark.

I’ve attempted it a couple times but the women had other ideas about proceeding once the act was initiated.
 
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