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So new to having anal sex as a bottom. It hurts when he enters and feel a block whenever he continues thrusting even slow thrust. After a while I enjoy it but just the stretching of my anus hurts all the time and after we are done I end up seeing blood whenever I go to the bathroom as in poop but not that much just small spots. The next day everything is all good(no blood) and normal is that normal. How can I train my ass to not bleed after sex, as well as get used to the my anus opening for sex. I want to enjoy it more sometime scared because of the pain.
 

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The blood is definitely worrisome. Any chance you have a hemorrhoid or an anal fissure? If so, that would also explain the pain, and you’d want to get that treated before trying to bottom again.

Training your ass is a separate issue. I would recommend preparing yourself with a butt plug or a dildo, but only after you’ve ruled out any medical issues. (I speak from experience: my ass naturally cramps up, but I can manage it by using toys on myself.) Once you get the hang of that, it does feel infinitely better and sexier!
 

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Thank you for the reply. I am not sure if I have one it just happens that after we are done and then I go poop after a couple of hours I just see small spots of bloods, but after a couple days I don’t see it anymore. I will definitely look into butt plugs and trying that out.
 

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The blood is definitely worrisome. Any chance you have a hemorrhoid or an anal fissure? If so, that would also explain the pain, and you’d want to get that treated before trying to bottom again.

Training your ass is a separate issue. I would recommend preparing yourself with a butt plug or a dildo, but only after you’ve ruled out any medical issues. (I speak from experience: my ass naturally cramps up, but I can manage it by using toys on myself.) Once you get the hang of that, it does feel infinitely better and sexier!

Building off this, I would recommend, if you're not going to ask a doctor about it (which you probably should), that you at least take a few weeks off from messing with your butt just to make sure that, if you have an unhealed fissure, that it has some time to heal.
 

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It also sounds like you need to train your hole. I recommend inflatable butt plug and/r dildo. It will get you used to penetration and taking larger size as well in a way dildoes aren't as good at. And make sure you are using plenty of lube--no such things as too much here; If sex isn't messy you're doing it wrong.
 

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There are lots of threads on here discussing how to "train" your hole, do a little searching and read up. The keys are: start slow, use tons of lube (as he says above, there's no such thing as too much), gradually increase the size (over weeks, not minutes or days), and if your top is not being gentle and responsive to your sensations then they do not deserve to be in you.
 
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It may simply be needing more lube and needing to reapply more lube. Waterbased lube tends to be absorbed rather quickly.

Pain during anal sex is simply not making the girth progression gradual enough for your body to relax. Something that can help is for your top to finger fuck you before he uses his cock. Generally by the time you can take 3 fingers he should be able to fuck you. When you get more experienced you won't need as much assistance to relax.