Anal sex! Compulsory for gay guys or not?

[Pablito-Rico]

It could be a lot of fun, just use protection and it will be fun. A plus be creative suck the guys dick all you want before he penetred you. You will enjoy the big dick... :smile:
remember to stick with the same fuck body discretly.

 

[MissyKrissy]

Its not compulspory, but try it you may get to like it. I do. Not for everyone, to each his own.

 

[buhaj2006]

I started messing around with guys seriously my senior year od High School (me and the football captain sucking each other 69 in the backseat of his Impala after the Greek Festival outside of Detroit. Thanks Dave, you got me hooked on big & thick party-size cock). Never got into anal until my late 20's, and took to it like a duck. I banged my boyfriend 2-3 times a day, and he used to tell me he'd feel me leaking out of him while he was at work (I know, I know, stupid to bareback and like an idiot I beleived him, only to find out he was HIV+ and was letting guys off the street bang his ass while I was working midnights, he's a big "Living With AIDS" celeb in California and tells people he "only had 5 "partners" since he was diagnosed in early 91/92. I was drinking coffee when I read that and it shot out of my nose out of shock). I lucked out, never tested positive and luckily never caught any STD's from this human cumrag.
I did not have anal sex after that with a guy for 2-5 years at a time. I still had good relationships and have been with my man 4 1/2 years and no complaints about not sliding the kielbasa in him.
Yeah I like the feeling topping a guy, but it's not everything. Kissing, licking can be sexy and spreading a guys legs and putting them on your shoulders drives guys wild, you are in charge. Try it with a Marine, they get off on giving up control and you dominating them, and you don't have to hide the sausage.
There are alot of ways to get off, there is a great thread on cock worship on here. One of my hottest memories are a guy putting his palm on my forehead and keeping me inches away from licking and paying homage to his big thick uncut cock.
30% of straights do anal, so it's not an exclusive gay thing. And they stigmatize us guys into guys. Go figure.

 

[Wolfhawke]

As a bottom, I can say that I do like my anal sex, but anything oral is definitely a before the anal and not after (unless we clean up after the first round <chuckle>.

And yeah, I'm more into making sure we both have a good time in bed than whether or not I get off (and I will if someone's pounding my ass).

 

[9inchcanadian]

Hey Kiwi.
Firstly. How cute are you!!!!!!
Anyway. My Boyf and I have been togetehr for 10 years now
applause please.
We didnt try anal sex for the first 5 years we had great fun just sucking and wanking, frottage taht kinda thing. I think you have to find your own comfort level with everything. A word of advice, just be careful where you go looking for fun, some guys can be kinda demanding and will be real assholes if you dont put out. Make it clear from the start you are just starting out on this journey if they don`t respect that then they aren`t gonna respect much else about you.
Good luck and welcome to the dark side(well 50% of you)

 

[dudenbayarea2]

Hey bro...

There are alot of guys out there who are not into anal sex...including myself. Like you, mainly into j/o, body contact, oral and making out. Check out this site. FROT WHAT'S NEW

 

[balboajo]

I have been with my gay partner for 25 years. We don't have anal sex and are perfectly happy and sexually active.

 

[Boobalaa]

I concur and remember it's not about having to do anything.."I have to"..It's starts with you.. your mindset,your attitude..you don't have to do anything you don't want to do

 

[nakedwally]

Actually there are many gay men who do not engage in anal sex.

I am with NJ on this one its true


Now for my own opinion....... there are a lot of gay guys that are into oral and j/o only, and there are a lot of gay guys that just like to watch, i myself enjoy anal sex occasionally but am mostly into oral sex with a guy, with a woman i am mostly into oral and vaginal. I have to admit anal sex can be enjoyable, however i prefer oral sex and rimming when it comes to a guy, i love to lick a male or female all over the place i have been known for my full body tongue massages. but sriously not all gay/bi/curious guys are into anal sex. WALLY L

 

[DaTone]

Hi Kiwi,
anal sex doesn't have to be shit play. There are ways of preparing your ass for this. Ok, this not really fun either ;-)
You'll shurely never be keen on having anal sex if you're not getting horny at all by the imagination of it. I've been really afraid of getting fucked before my first time. And first time it hurted like hell. But I really wanted it, and now it works. If YOU don't want to bottom, then just don't do it. And if you dont want to fuck, then just don't do it.
Actually, if you start something serious with a guy there could be trouble when it's getting obvious that there will be absolutely no anal sex. Because most gay guys really like it.



PS.: What's so disgusting about watching gay porn?
PPS.: Sorry about my cheesy English, I'm a kraut

 

[HazelGod]

the recent trend in porn of A2M (Ass to Mouth) I find totally skeevy.

Yep, I'm completely befuddled by this. What's worse are the 3+ scenes where cock is going from one woman's ass into another woman's mouth. Ugh. Your own GI bacteria can cause enough issues, but someone else's? Wow. I don't understand the attraction at all. The other thing I've seen is pussy-to-ass-back-to-pussy penetration. Holy E. coli, kids...what are you thinking?!?

 

[Balljunkie]

Gay porn can be really nasty. I'm will admit that I am not turned on when a guy or a girl has a huge gaping anus. It's gross. That is what turns me off with gay porn. And Carlos Morales, I think that it is him, you could drive an 18 wheeler up in his ass. That's not attractive. I also was grossed out when I saw a guy fist another guy.

 

[JackM]

I'm gay and have never been into anal sex.

Not getting into it was partly on grounds of safety, although I suspect the thought of it is much hornier than the reality.

 

[TheMarchHare]

In short: No, anal sex is not compulsory between two men.

However, Anal sex is very very nice... and there is no reason two guys shouldn't be able to enjoy it. I don't think I'd be able to be in a relationship, at least not for long, with someone who never wanted to have actual intercourse. To me, the rest, while being quite nice... and often times, more than enough... is simply foreplay. Anal sex, like regular heterosexual intercourse, is simply more intense, and allows for more of an emotional connection than would, say, getting a blow job for instance. Everything is nice, but to me anal sex is the cherry on top(no pun intended). But that's just my opinion.

Anal sex is a scary idea at first... but as long as they know what they are doing, and go slow at first(if you're bottoming), then everything will be fine... and like wise, if you're topping.. just remember to be gentle at first... and also remember, it's forward thrusts, not down.. some guys newer to anal sex have a problem remembering that little bit of info for some reason.

As for unhygienic... a little bit of self cleaning on the bottom's part goes a long way. Also, keep in mind, that given the assumption you have plenty of common sense at your disposal, you'll be using a condom. That's a buffer zone. So as far as all that goes... it's not unhygienic in the slightest.

 

[TheMarchHare]

I'm gay and have never been into anal sex.

Not getting into it was partly on grounds of safety, although I suspect the thought of it is much hornier than the reality.

The reality of it is way better than the thought of it could ever be.

Keep in mind you're a male.

From the perspective of a bottom:
You have a prostate.
When your prostate is pushed on.. it feels *very* good.

The easiest access to push on the prostate... is through the ass.

Aside from that, the ass has one of the largest bundles of nerve endings in your entire body.



As long as the guy who is topping knows how to use what he's got, you're fine.

From the perspective of a top:
You'll never find anything tighter than a nice ass..
and when a boy is turned on, and especially when the boy is cumming... the muscles inside the ass constrict repeatedly... which also feels really really nice.