Hey guys, I was wanting to start a thread where you could come to and ask any question regarding anal sex, without any shame. I'm not saying that anal sex is something shameful, but a place where you can speak your mind without any restrictions, or find answers that are somewhat difficult to ask to begin with. I'll start. Before having anal sex, how do you prepare for it? Do you even prepare for it? If so, what all goes into it? (pun intended, if you like). I usually coat one finger with baby oil and stick it up inside me to check if there are any "obstructions" in the way (by that I mean shit, obviously - again, no shame!) But sometimes, regarding to what I must have eaten before hand, I feel that I am just too dirty for my partner that occasion, so I'll have to wait, or he'll happily bottom for me. We're all adults here and should respect ourselves and our bodies functions. That being said, and back to my previous question - how do you prepare for anal sex?