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So, I am hoping to get some good advice here...
The man I am seeing is very nicely endowed -- 7" long and VERY THICK (I don't know the exact measurement). I, of course, enjoy vaginal sex with him very much. He has, however, expressed an interest in trying anal sex.
I have to say I am not altogether comfortable with that idea -- I tried it some years back once, and the guy was nither as long or as thick but I couldn't even let him get more than 2" in before I asked him to stop. But I think the technique was wrong. Which is to say, there really was no forethought, he just "tried" and I said "stop" and that was the end of it.
So, I am (hesitantly) considering giving it another try -- at the very least to say I gave it an honest attempt and he at least gets the opportunity to try it. So, what advice can you give me on how to actually have a PLEASANT anal experience? If possible, I am most interested in knowing how to avoid damaging anything in that area, while still being able to give him the pleasure he is looking for -- to my knowledge, he's never performed anal before, but we communicate well, so anything I should let HIM know is good too.
The man I am seeing is very nicely endowed -- 7" long and VERY THICK (I don't know the exact measurement). I, of course, enjoy vaginal sex with him very much. He has, however, expressed an interest in trying anal sex.
I have to say I am not altogether comfortable with that idea -- I tried it some years back once, and the guy was nither as long or as thick but I couldn't even let him get more than 2" in before I asked him to stop. But I think the technique was wrong. Which is to say, there really was no forethought, he just "tried" and I said "stop" and that was the end of it.
So, I am (hesitantly) considering giving it another try -- at the very least to say I gave it an honest attempt and he at least gets the opportunity to try it. So, what advice can you give me on how to actually have a PLEASANT anal experience? If possible, I am most interested in knowing how to avoid damaging anything in that area, while still being able to give him the pleasure he is looking for -- to my knowledge, he's never performed anal before, but we communicate well, so anything I should let HIM know is good too.