Anal Sex for Women...Hard to describe how it feels

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Do you think opinions are really that strong? The people here don't always seem totally liberal minded either, but there are still girls like me floating around.

If opinions where you are really are that strong Equ, I suggest waiting until you know her really well - and until you know she won't punch you!

Yes,northern women are very opinionated.....can you not tell with the way i get on my soap box? LOL!!

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

This lady speaks the truth lol.

Part of me hope some lady on here will see this thread and goes "awww poor guy, i'll invite him over" lol

I sure do!!:biggrin1:


......and not with one that chuffin size!! I walk funny as it is:tongue:

 

[maestro071]

Only one girl ever let me in the ass, and she enjoyed it. At begining I liked it, and did it from time to time, though vaginal sex was much better( and easier . With other girls, I tried to talk them into anal, but none ever agreed. They always claim its gonna hurt. Sometimes I'm pissed off because they dont even wanna give a try...though they had it with other guys...

 

[Belly_Dancer]

I like anal sex -- a lot. And I always have, back to the first time I tried it.

While I was a teenager, my submissive fantasies started to venture into the territory of sodomy. I was turned on by the idea of being taken in the ass, but had no idea how it would feel.

I decided to experiment while masturbating. I used my usual makeshift dildo in my pussy, but I also put a slim taper candle up my ass. As I stroked my clit, I gently worked both foreign objects. The orgasm I had was unreal! Nerve endings were exploding in my ass, pussy, and clit, all at the same time, and I was super turned on by my fantasy as well...

Needless to say, I repeated this experience many times.

With all my partners before my ex-husband, though, I was too ashamed and shy to admit I wanted to try anal sex...none of them ever suggested it, and I thought if I brought it up they would think I was perverted.

But a while after I started dating my ex, he just decided to try going in that way one night, and after applying some spit (we didn't have any lube), he entered me. I didn't come that first time, but I did enjoy it.

I really don't understand the whole thing about it feeling like taking a shit backwards; it feels completely different to me.

Anyway, my ex was just a little bit larger than average in size, and all the times we had anal after our first go, we used some kind of lube. He would always have to enter me slowly and gradually so I could relax and adjust to him, and I will admit the entry was painful, but things always got better once I relaxed.

I will say that the indispensable ingredient to make anal sex pleasurable for me, though, is to always stimulate my clit the whole time he is in my ass. If I take my fingers off my clit, the pain becomes more obvious, but if I keep stroking my clit, the pain is almost nil, and is totally eclipsed by pleasure.

I can come easily from anal, but only with accompanying clitoral stimulation.

My present husband is a good deal larger than my ex, so taking him anally has been a bit more daunting. We've done it a few times, and I do manage to adjust eventually to most of his shaft, but he is even thicker than 6" at the base, and getting that part in always hurts. I think his base is about the limit of what I can take anally.

Anyway, we have done it both with me on all fours and face to face with me on my back, and once I relax after a careful, gradual entry with plenty of lube, he is able to pump pretty enthusiastically without really hurting me.

I have never bled from anal sex. I have been sore, but it gets better in a few days, and I don't have anal often enough for chronic soreness to be an issue.

One additional thing I will say is that in my adult life, I have continued to experiment with foreign objects in my ass -- dildos and butt plugs, used both in conjunction with vaginal penetration, or without.

Being fucked in the pussy with a medium-sized butt plug in my ass is very pleasurable for both partners.

I also think having played with butt plugs and dildos has gotten me more used to anal sensations and has made it easier to enjoy anal sex.

Finally, I will mention that if you are (as I am) a little bit embarrassed and squeamish about the state of your rectum preceding sex, you can use an anal douche (with plain water) a few times to clean out any unwanted residue. Once I started doing that, I felt a lot more confident about ass play. You can get an anal douche from an adult store. Do NOT use an enema like you get at the drug store -- these are not plain water and are designed to make you shit, not to clean you out.

Sorry this post is so freakin' long!

 

[BadBoyCanada]

my 2 cents worth.

Been married for 15 years. My wife was disgusted at the idea, and truthfully, it didn't do much for me.

A few years ago, I started giving her massages prior as part of foreplay and noticed how turned on a good bum rub got her. I mean she was truly excited. It even surprised her! I probably could have fisted her if I wanted.

Anyway, I eventually included a finger anally. Just a bit at a time. She never turned and said "WTF??!!", so I assumed she was open to the idea (excuse the pun). I noticed how relaxed she got and how much easier it was to get it in. Eventually she would grind my finger.

Now, I eventually brought lube into the equation, and she really, really liked that. Then a couple of times during "69", I put my finger in as I was pleasuring her. I thought she was going to wake the neighbors with the moans of ecstasy.

Eventually, she turned to me and begged for me to do her from behind.
It really excites her, and I enjoy exciting her. For me, it seems to increase my stamina. It's a bit painful for me I(and I'm not huge), so that bit of discomfort seems to slow the need to cum.

It's a typical part of our play in a month. We can only seem to do it doggie style. I would like to lay behind her and try it, but her big bum and my spare tire don't seem to be a good mix.

Always fun trying though.

SO if you have a few weeks to slowly introduce it, go for it.

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

I've said this before, but my ex said pretty much the only way anal worked was if she drank close to half a bottle of tequila. Just throwing it out there.

I'm in!

 

[TheEqu]

Maybe I should start buying tequila.

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Bit rank to have to get some p!ssed to give them one isnt it!

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

@ Belly Dancer --I appreciate the thoroughness of your response. Very insightful. Thanks. I think I can try adding clit stimulation via vibrator. Perhaps will help relax me even more. Margaritas will definitely help me relax more!!!

 

[Calboner]

That's No Hemorrhoid - Video Clips - South Park Studios

"You know that feeling when the huge dump you just took shoots back up inside your ass?"

 

[EllieP]

Different strokes for different folks. I have never had anal sex and have absolutely no desire to even try. One glance at my husband's business is all it takes to say "no way!" Once, by accident, he ventured back there and it shocked the living daylights out of me! I was seriously scared of getting scarred. I know he would tear me up bad.

I'm really good with what I have, thanks. But butt love for Ellie.

 

[shortcake_78]

So, does anyone have advice on how to have amazing anal sex? I'm contemplating having anal sex for the first time, and I'd rather that it was pleasurable instead of painful, like in some of the stories above. Besides being relaxed, using lots of lube, and pushing out as he gently pushes his cock into, what else can I do?

 

[shortcake_78]

Any advice on how to have amazing anal sex? I know I need to be relaxed, use lots of lube, and try to push out while he is gently sliding his cock in, but are there any more secrets to making it feel good instead of painful?

 

[589189]

Hi folks:

an interesting read. I have no experience at anal sex at all. well apart from failed attempts...and these have been usually the choice of the woman at the time, I havent been with a woman who is experienced enough to get past the initial issues described here by others.

I am intrigued to know more about the female orgasm associated with anal penetration though.
Any Comments??

 

[B_subgirrl]

So, does anyone have advice on how to have amazing anal sex? I'm contemplating having anal sex for the first time, and I'd rather that it was pleasurable instead of painful, like in some of the stories above. Besides being relaxed, using lots of lube, and pushing out as he gently pushes his cock into, what else can I do?

That's pretty much it. Working up to it using fingers or smaller toys can also help.

 

[helgaleena]

Unlike many here, the first time I had anal, I enjoyed it and my partner did not! He shared that he had been molested as a boy and could not stay aroused for it. We moved on to other things which he liked.

Anal does take preparation, especially mental preparation. You have to basically enjoy the sensations for themselves, as Belly Dancer says. If not, involving another brain and body can be terrifying. There are also hygiene issues. "Double dipping' and 'ass to mouth' will bring on painful and possibly lethal disease conditions by putting e.coli where it doesn't belong. If you are going to do anal as part of a mixed bag of sexual activities, do it last.

But I do like it very much. I also have fisted both sexes. It helps to have small hands sometimes! Since my openings are rather petite I do not enjoy having someone fist me though. It's just a preference. Fingers are fun.

Putting up with something that makes you bleed is a real romance killer. I do not enjoy giving or receiving pain including from anal. 'Fuck me till I bleed' I have only encountered in fantasy literature. That is where I'd rather it stayed.

 

[B_lauaraneeds]

My ex did it to me all the time when ever he wanted it. I loved him and put up with the pain because of the love. He was huge and thick. Thank God my guy is little now. All guys want anal...

 

[HazelGod]

My ex did it to me all the time when ever he wanted it. I loved him and put up with the pain because of the love. He was huge and thick. Thank God my guy is little now. All guys want anal...

:lmao:

Where do these people come from?!?

 

[D_Tam_Ponds]

I have to say that I just gave it a serious go for the first time. He started with just a finger, and I have to admit, that feels pretty good. When he tried to get himself in though, it didn't work. A few days later, a glass toy slowly and careful worked into my ass was tolerable - actually enjoyable. I do think there is a trick to it though - I almost really needed double penetration for it to work well, and be very enjoyable. So with the glass toy, I also used a big dildo for my pussy. Then yes, clitoral stimulation added to the mix really was sensational. After that, the next time we tried anal was very successful. He had to go very slow, and he was kind enough to stop and wait while everything adjusted a few times, but he was rewarded for his patience, as he was then able to continue as he wished once he got all the way in. Again, we used the dildo as well, and with it it was very enjoyable. I disagree about the sensation - it is definitely different, but I never really felt like I had to poop. At this point, I much prefer regular sex, but who knows for the future...

 

[KJ831]

It's hard to describe the sensation exactly, but the best thing I can come up with is that it feels like some strange mix of vaginal, clitoral, and g-spot stimulation, coming from a different location deep inside. It feels very filling, highly pleasurable, and the orgasms are absolutely mind-shattering.

I know this will put me in the minority here, but I actually find anal sex more enjoyable than vaginal. The fact that my ass is far deeper than my pussy, and I've never been with a guy who I couldn't take balls deep is, in my opinion, an added plus.